my bf always finds ways to touch me, he stands close by me and when we sit together sometimes he touches my leg and arms and we hold hands alot, what is he thinking??
2006-11-29 10:52:09 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he is thinking that he loves you and likes your company.
2006-11-29 10:53:42 · answer #1 · answered by Olivia 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hmmm....he is thinking that he is looking to get intimate with you. he really likes you and is totally physically attracted to (which is why he is your bf) and boys get interested in intimacy faster than girls do. he is thinking he will try to hold your hand, put his arm around you, touch your leg...see what kind of a reaction he gets from you and then maybe he will try to go a little farther. don't do anything you don't feel comfortable with...he will still like you .
2006-11-29 11:01:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sadie my Dear,
He is testing you to see how far he can go before you say yes or no.
How old are you?
*Please be careful and not let your feelings get ahead of your age.
How long have you been w/ him?
Remember your values.
Communicating honestly and openly is so important to a healthy relationship. Letting each other know boundaries is important. Respecting each other's boundaries is equally important too! No pressuring to do things that you or he may not be ready for.
Good luck to you and your bo and your future Sweetie.
You seem to be a very nice young lady , good for you!
2006-11-29 11:02:33 · answer #3 · answered by Mamma Mia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is thinking that he likes u and he hopes u like him too and maybe u to will have something great. U dont u ask him? I know that u doont want to but if he fesses up then it gives u a chance to say that he likes u too and thats really what he wants to hear. Y dont u try holding his hand first or cuddling up to him guys need that to
2006-11-29 10:55:56 · answer #4 · answered by do you know me? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe tactile contact is his way of expressing affection. It could be worse. At least he's not trying to grab your hooliepappies in public or anything similar. Touching is pleasant. Enjoy the sensation for what it is.
2006-11-29 11:00:19 · answer #5 · answered by rtanys 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I believe that's a natural chemistry we call love that exists between two people that loves each other unless if the love is one sided. Remember you called him your best friend, its people like that you may one day have an opportunity of calling your life partner if its mean't to be.
2006-11-29 10:58:50 · answer #6 · answered by Melody 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you seious my boyfriend was the same way if i were you start acting bitchy when he gets all touchy feely cause what he is thinking is i wanna **** and if you laugh or touch back he will think you feel the same way well yeah if you do then get checked out and get birth control before anything or just be safe about it ok well thats all i can say about that ok well bye
2006-11-29 10:56:48 · answer #7 · answered by aleegoit 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am a guy so I should know this. He's thinking he loves you truly. He wants you because he loves you not as a trophy to say stuff like "I have a gf and you don't"
2006-11-29 10:58:06 · answer #8 · answered by Conrado 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont like the soft touch of your honey? At least he isnt being forceful about it, is he? I wouldnt complain, one boyfriend I had barely acknowledged me at all, let alone put his hand on my leg....
2006-11-29 10:55:05 · answer #9 · answered by dramafreak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he can't believe you're for real and that he's lucky enough to be with you, so if has to keep touching you to make certain that it's all true.
You could always pinch him back and say "I just wanted to make certain I wasn't dreaming you".
2006-11-29 10:55:45 · answer #10 · answered by marklemoore 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
my sisters boyfriend does that all the time....to the point he has stepped in her shoes while walking. He is very insecure. Could be that or your boyfriend may just be affectionate, it should be easy to tell by how it makes you feel.
2006-11-29 10:55:03 · answer #11 · answered by Cherry_Blossom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋