The father of my four year old daughter i dated for four years recently had a baby by one of my ex best friends. who is actually still married to a guy friend of mine and they have 2 kids together. It seems like this women who is always having tantrums doesnt want my kids father to have anything to do with my daughter. I understand they have achild together but she keeps trying to come in he middle between me and my daughters father. She gets these jelous out burst and doesn't even want him talking to me even if its about our child. I have confronted her before bacause shes always saying things about me behind my back, but i don't know what else to do. I want him to be a part of my daughters life, but for her to mind her own buissness and take care of the 2 kids she doesn't.
2006-11-29 10:42:24 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
maybe you should all go on the Jerry Sringer show or try using birth control or maybe get married 1st then have kids
2006-11-29 10:47:42 · answer #1 · answered by cmdogg38 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
we as mother always want our child's father around for the child but yet that may not always be the case. I think that for a while you should stop pressing the issue. I believe that it is not your place to stand up to the other woman but it is your baby's father place. Because when it is all said and done that is his child and his responsibility and that really has nothing to do with the other woman. It may hurt as hell but all you can do at this point is let it go and be the best mother you can for your child if he not willing to play a part in your child's life then all you can do is try to receive child support so at least he can contribute money for the child. Other than that I would not to much worry about the other woman. Let her talk as long as she does not put her hands on you then it is not that serious think about it sweetie people are gonna say things about you to the day you die. it's not what they call you it is what you answer to
2006-11-29 11:47:49 · answer #2 · answered by Missy_Eye's 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Think about your daughter; this situation cannot be good for her. She needs you to be there for her more than she needs a man with a girlfriend causing trouble. Let this man go. You can not force him to be what you want him to be. He is what he is and your daughter deserves better. You are making this all about what you want. Take a step back and think what is best for your child. Make it about her and what is best for her.
2006-11-29 13:37:51 · answer #3 · answered by leaving.florida 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do not have to deal with the new woman at all. She is not a part of your life or that of your child. Discuss things with your baby's father and don't even worry about her.
2006-11-29 10:57:32 · answer #4 · answered by Starla_C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have no reason to discuss anything with the other women and you can't stop her from talking about you. Don't call over to her house either to speak with your ex.
Once you drop your child off, the daddy is in control and you have no reason to call or check up on your child.
If the daddy wants to be around, he will, if he does not, he won't.
Best of luck
2006-11-29 10:48:31 · answer #5 · answered by Sunflower 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could. Male cats have been popular to kill the youngsters. Now could be a very reliable time to get the male cat fixed. Mama cat can go in warmth as early as 4 weeks after the delivery of the kittens.
2016-12-14 09:13:24 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should go on the Maury or Jerry Springer Show. Baby Mama Drama.
2006-11-29 10:52:58 · answer #7 · answered by notyou311 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
You should try to get booked on Jerry Springer. Where are you people's morals? Quit having kids out of wedlock. Jeez.
2006-11-29 11:40:25 · answer #8 · answered by sheeny 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
she needs to understand that thats his baby to. So maybe if you try talking to her and ask her why she has to be like that you can find some reason behind all this nonsince.
2006-11-29 11:20:39 · answer #9 · answered by bearcatz_07 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll see you on the the maury show to see why he won't take care of his kids.
2006-11-29 11:55:20 · answer #10 · answered by Alicia-brandon15 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋