I aks before but in wrong place. I am youngest in my family and I have like the worst sister in the world i think sometimes!!! Shes 15 and im 12 and she is such a brat to me!!! always shes picking on me and making fun of me 2 her friends and i really hate that!! Shes prettier and gets better grades and always acts like shes so perfect and knows she so much better then me. If i do something wrong she will tell on me and i will get yelled at or punished or spanked and she think that is sooooo funny!! She laugh and call me a baby when i cry about things like if my crush is mean to me or if im upset with things or if i get a spanking. I know im supposed love her shes my sister but I really get so mad at her i dont know if i love her what should i do??? Will she always be so mean!!???
2006-11-29 10:38:15 · 10 answers · asked by Tia 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I'm 14 and I have a sister who's 16. She's really rude to me too. It drives me insane b/c she is always pushing me and telling me rude things. What I do, is tell her straight up to leave me alone. I tell her that she needs to back off. If she doesn't and hits me or something then I call my parents (that way I won't get in trouble) or hit her back and tell her to stop. Usually rude siblings will back off if you are firm with them and show them the consequences of messing with you.
I suggest you explain what REALLY happened before allowing your parents to whip you, to see if what really happened deserves you to get a spanking or not. I'd also suggest you tell your parents what your sister is doing. She needs to leave you alone and cut it out. Her behavior should NOT be tolerated and she may be 15 and may not get whipped anymore-but that does not mean that she shouldn't get punished for the crap she is starting.
Till then, just kinda relax and try not to let her bother you. Teens have a LOT of stuff going on in their lives and spend their energy being butt heads or being good people. One day, your sister will appreciate you. Just give things some time to clean up.
-All the best!! :)
2006-11-29 10:50:43 · answer #1 · answered by sweetdollツ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 11 &....my sister's the exact same way!!!!!!!!!!!!! She's always picking at me & pointing out everything little imperfect thing, but...that's what siblings are for. Me & my sister got in a huge fight, & my dad said,"Me & my brothers would fight ALL THE TIME! We'd say we hated each other & everything, but now that I don't get to see him a lot & he's not really a big part of my life 'cuz of my schedule, I wish I could take back all those 'I hate you's & just spend a week with all of them & catch up on life. 1 day, you'll wake up & be 24 & wish but nothing more than to see your sister. You guys have grown up together & know each other better than you know yourself. You guys spend so much time together & plenty more fights will happen, but if Taylor (my sister) was gone, Abby, you'd miss her so much & would want nothing more but for her to come back." Me & my sister hugged each other then. We told each other we were sorry. Yes, I get mad at her like all siblings, but she's been there for me through everything & I love her. Of course you love your sister, but it's hard to say that when you just got in a fight with them. Good luck. =) You & your sister will 1 day laugh about all the fights you had.
2006-11-29 11:28:54 · answer #2 · answered by Abby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you mean. My sister is 16 and I am 13 so I can relate. Really she does love you! It might not seem like it but she does. She probably picks on you because she would feel weird if she is being nice to you because you are her younger sister. This will mostly happen when you are around her friends. I am sure if you had a younger sister you would do they same, but you know what it will pass. I mean I am sure that little fights might happen but nothing huge. Just try not to do the same thing back to her and maybe she will notice. I know it is really hard but try not to show that what she does upsets you and she will eventually just stop calling you names and making fun of you all the time. Remember you are sisters so there will be times when you disagree but always love her and she will always love you.
2006-11-29 10:46:47 · answer #3 · answered by Mckenzie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess because she feels dominated, because feels that she's the first. i'm an older sister and not all big sisters are mean. i would feel embarrassed to be seen or known as a mean sister to my sibling or siblings. my sister and i get along all the time!!! just ask her the next time she does something mean, just say "why are you ALWAYS so mean to me?" and just walk away, that should leave her thinking for a while and maybe she'll change.
2016-05-23 03:13:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hang in there. Brothers and sisters are often mean to each other....its what they do. I don't know why, but they do. Just remember that the two of you are sisters and try to be the better person about it. You two will probably love each other very much when you both get older. You sound like a good sister or this wouldn't be bothering you so much. Good luck!
2006-11-29 10:45:37 · answer #5 · answered by Jerry Garcia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the exact same with me except I'm in the middle.I have a twin and I'll Be 13 next week.You have to deal with her until she moves out but talk to your parents.Try to avoid your sister is if helps.I can't avoid mine because we have the same classes and have to do stuff together since we're twins but she's better looking, gets asked out ALL the time and has started getting better grades than me.It's makes me feel disgusting and stupid.She talks to her friends about me and now they hate me too.I'd suggest talking to your parents and avoid your sister like I mentioned above.
2006-11-29 14:22:28 · answer #6 · answered by Shelby Victoria 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My brother hated me my entire life.....I could never figure it out.....I wished he liked me....he just always thought I was a pest....
We are grown up now......and we have a normal Brother Sister Relationship.....I actually think he likes me......
So the thing is....it won't always be this way....you guys just have to get through these early years...and in time you'll be the best of friends....
Take Care.....
2006-11-29 13:22:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's mean to u because maybe she is having a tough time, if she says something bad, saying something back just makes things worse just don't say anything, or reply nicely, that way she won't yell at u so muach, give it a try for a little while
2006-11-29 10:42:53 · answer #8 · answered by michelle P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes a big sister. enough said. they like picking on people younger than them or just picking on people in general
2006-11-29 10:42:17 · answer #9 · answered by Sassy B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this thing happens to me with my brother! what works for me, i totally ignore him. like, pretend he did not talk. its really hard because u want to fight back or yell something back, but after a while she will ignore u (at least for the day). it works for me and hopefully it will work for you
2006-11-29 10:44:31 · answer #10 · answered by ניקול 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋