My big sister makes me soooooooo mad!!!!!!!?

Question

I am youngest in my family and I have like the worst sister in the world i think sometimes!!! Shes 15 and im 12 and she is such a brat to me!!! always shes picking on me and making fun of me 2 her friends and i really hate that!! Shes prettier and gets better grades and always acts like shes so perfect and knows she so much better then me. If i do something wrong she will tell on me and i will get yelled at or punished or spanked and she think that is sooooo funny!! She laugh and call me a baby when i cry about things like if my crush is mean to me or if im upset with things or if i get a spanking. I know im supposed love her shes my sister but I really get so mad at her i dont know if i love her what should i do??? Will she always be so mean!!???

Answer 1

I'm sorry, I had to laugh because I went through the same thing with my sister who was 9 years older than me. Remember that at some point she was the baby, and then you came along and took her spot. Also, she is a teenager, and they are programmed to be mean to the little sister, especially if your parents have ever required her to let you tag along.

My sister and I had a knock down drag out fight the night before her wedding when she was 21 and I was 13. As she was about to knock me out, she stopped and said, "Why am I doing this, I'm moving out tomorrow!" After she moved, she ended up being my best friend, my protector, and actually kept my mom off my back by letting me stay at her house when things got rough. She was and still is one of my best role models (we are now 50 and 59!)

Sisters always go through this. Stay away from her, hang out with your own friends, and when she's being particularly b****chy, just look at her, smile and walk away - knowing that one of these days the two of you will be friends. You do love her, but it's ok to be mad at her, and to not like her (you can love someone and not like them). That will come later.

Good luck!

Answer 2

well i can relate to your problem because when i was 18 i had a 11 yr old sister and infact she was always jelous of me coz i was older prettier etc etc and i always used to pick on her and stuff but you wanna know the reason why i did it...because I was jelous of her...she was younger no problems in life and for some reason i wanted to make her life hell coz my life was hell..she was also the youngest in my family and i was the second eldest
there was complete jelousy between us most of the time.but you know what as she got older everything was fine i respected her she respected me and things are fine i think also that the age difference is the big factor you are both at an age were kids are very impressionable and jelous of each other and competition will always be there. and have u ever stopped to think that she wishes that she was young again and the baby of the family im pretty sure thats whats wrong i might be wrong im not sure but i and my sister were in the exact same situation and things got better she is also just trying to proove that she is older and better than you all kids do that..dont worry sweety when u are about 15 and she is about 18 you will be the best of friends.. sisters should stand by each other and protect each other not fight so just show her that ur not affected by what she does and she will soon ignor you and grow up..even if it is hurting you just ignoe it or at least try to not react unless of course its something very bad then tell an adult..good luck sweety..everything will be fine

Answer 3

Before long you and your sister will be grown up and you will have a different sort of relationship. What you are both doing right now is a typical sort of thing with sisters at your ages. She will get older and you will get older and things will be different. When my daughters were your age they fought and teased each other all the time. Now they are best friends. When they were fighting I often told them, "Your friends are your friends for a little while, but your sister is your sister for the rest of your life and someday you will need each other."

Try to keep perspective and ignore her as much as possible. She will outgrow this behavior. She will not always be mean. In a couple of years she will be heading off to college any you will actually miss her. If it is too much to handle now talk to your parents.

Take care.

Answer 4

SHe is mean because she is jealous. She is jealous of you so she is trying to keep you down. What you need to do is just succeed and ignore her...and when she realizes she cant bring you down and shes put a huge wedge between the two of you she will always be sorry and regret the way she treated you.

Answer 5

she won't always be this mean to you it is all part of your growing up She shows off with her mates and it is you that takes this
Why do you think she is prettier than you or any better than you she is not you just have some catching up to do and when you do catch up you will be the better person as you have gotten on with things
Take care

Answer 6

I think that there is a very good chance that she won't be as mean to you as you guys grow up. My older sister and I were the same way with eachother as we grew up but now we are honeslty bestfriends.

Answer 7

And your parents are letting this happen? geesch!
Talk this over with your folks your sister needs to take a chill pill she was 12 only 3 years ago and she should know that teasing hurts.

Answer 8

tell yr parents.
i think shes going through a phase cause i remeber that me and my sister were like that,

but as i got older iw as into the kinda stuff she liked and she changed and acted smarter with age so now we get along.

just tell your parents and maybe not tlk to her botu that kinda stuff andyomre. and jsut kinda like tlk to her at a minimum.i know thats mean to telly ou to do with your sister but if thats how she acts to you, then she kinda deserves it.

Answer 9

She should realise how lucky she is to have a sister. I am stuck with 4 brothers!

Answer 10

ahhh the teen years your sister well always bug you even when you are grown