Why do I allow certain people (mainly this guy) to get me upset and mad all the time by his actions? He is this on again off again type and so I have such mixed feelings about him. There was a time I really loved him and now I seem to be so angry when he contacts me and starts playing games with me when I know I deserve better but there is no one else in my life.
2006-11-29 10:32:58 · 8 answers · asked by homesweethomediana@sbcglobal.net 3 in Health ➔ Mental Health
So you're hangin in there out of fear of being alone?
Hmmm, really bad basis for a relationship. No one else can make you happy. You're the only one who controls that. He's obviously not producing positive feelings in you so time to walk away.
You do need to find something though that interests you (solo) so that you can learn to feel comfortable in your own skin...ie: being alone, loving yourself for who you are, etc.
There's nothing wrong with you. The sooner you love and respect yourself, the less you'll choose (unconsciously or otherwise) to be bothered by him. Sounds like your feelings aren't so mixed.
2006-11-29 10:45:01 · answer #1 · answered by L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wrong is not the issue here. Games people play are for life and death. We are in life in one of two groups; The winner/player group or the smaller group of outcast/filler type of person. Chose to learn more and go after him and start playing with your mind not your gentle heart. Get a tough outcast man like me to help you learn faster.
2006-11-29 19:14:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apparently there is a part of you that feels what this guy thinks about you is important and/or valid and that you must defend yourself against his attacks. That he is able to "rent" so much space in your head, is a true sign of how much power he has over you.
You should really stay clear of this turd, because he's no friend of yours. He gets his thrills from seeing you upset and enjoys the "rise" he gets out of you. It's sheer entertainment for him at your expense. In other words, he likes pushing your "buttons," and has your "number" on speed-dial.
2006-11-29 18:59:13 · answer #3 · answered by soulguy85 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is taking u for granted.
U need to find true love out there that will chill u to the bone,instead of make u angry.
2006-11-29 18:36:41 · answer #4 · answered by sunflare63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't hang on to this dude. Yes, you do deserve better. Get rid of this guy and start looking around. Don't let him get away with stuff on you. You're not his personal plaything.
2006-11-29 18:38:41 · answer #5 · answered by Richard B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try your gut felling it right 99% of the time
try it is right all of the time
2006-11-29 18:43:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him and be done know one is worth u waring about
2006-11-29 18:40:49 · answer #7 · answered by brittiney c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your in love with a bum! poor girl
2006-11-29 18:44:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋