But when they want a girl that eats, do they expect her to not gain weight? I am confused.
2006-11-29 10:21:19 · 18 answers · asked by mystifyingsilence 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it just means they want a girl that is healthy and isn't trying to starve herself and be perfect for her guy. never, ever EVER try and be perfect for your guy or anyone else. you are not perfect, and you never will be. guys like to eat, and they don't want a girl who is always worrying about her weight and how she looks. if a guy really loves you, he won't care about how you look. he'll want to show you off to all your friends and tell you you are so so beautiful even when you're in an awful bright orange pantsuit.
2006-11-29 10:25:13 · answer #1 · answered by lauren 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Lauren is right. A guy wants a girl who is unself-conscious and comfortable with herself. A girl who doesn't eat when she is hungry, or pretends in front of him that she doesn't eat, is more concerned about how she appears to others than how she feels. It is even worse if she has an eating disorder, because this means she has a psychological problem that goes even deeper than not eating.
But you can eat a normal amount and not gain weight, and if you keep up a reasonable exercise routine, you can be toned and healthy-looking on top of it. I think guys would find this to be the best of all worlds.
2006-11-29 10:32:35 · answer #2 · answered by julz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have found that with guys that I have dated this tends to be real common. If anything I would say that when a female eats in front of a guy it shows high self esteem because your not afraid your going to gain weight or what the guy thinks of you. Another reason that men seem to like women that eat is because it gives you another thing to hold in common or have lots of talks about. If the man cooks it also could be a way for him to show you how much he cares about you by making you a special meal. Hope that helps.
2006-11-29 10:28:29 · answer #3 · answered by Rachel_Rabbit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess a guy doesn't want a girl that is under or over weight. Someone in the middle, where u eat 2 a limit.
2006-11-29 10:23:11 · answer #4 · answered by Dark Side 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've never heard a guy say that but I'd go with the eating disorder thing.
2006-11-29 10:23:52 · answer #5 · answered by lwk362393 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Eat girl, eat. Doin it with a 2 X 4 hurts the balls.
2006-11-29 10:22:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, specifically they want a girl who can eat like them but not gain any weight from it. They want to go out of cheeseburgers and beers every week and they want you to look like a 16 year old forever. They have unrealistic expectations... most of them will admit that
2006-11-29 10:23:54 · answer #7 · answered by Smitten_Kitten 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no, they are saying they like girls who are healthy, eat normal and exercise to stay in a normal size. Only a dog wants a bone.
2006-11-29 10:23:20 · answer #8 · answered by haileybeth79 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
be confident enough that you can eat food...if i'm with you it's because you're hot...if you start gaining too much weight...i may casualy bring up working out...
if i spend 30 bucks on dinner and you don't eat it...i'll eat it...we'll sit there however long it takes...then i'll dump you because you wasted my time and money...
2006-11-29 10:27:41 · answer #9 · answered by Ed O 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one likes to see your rib cage, and the skelital structure on the rest of your body. But someone that is fat and someone that eats could be very different.
2006-11-29 10:26:34 · answer #10 · answered by rocker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋