I'm pretty young for my sex drive to be so low, and my boyfriend is always in the mood, and I want to be too, but I don't know if it is laziness or what...its just...GAK! someone please help! How do I get hornier?
2006-11-29 10:16:18 · 9 answers · asked by Aria 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Often women's sex drive with their mate is determined by the passion and romance they feel for them. If you and your man are not getting along or he is not satisfying your emotional needs then your sex drive will suffer. If you have sexual desires outside of him this is a good indication that this is the case and you two need to work on your relationship and romance outside of the bedroom. If you don't have a sexual drive period then it may be a medical problem like maybe you haven't been ovulating, are deficient in estrogen, or no good blood circulation to the genitals or something. In that case you should talk to a gynecologist.
2006-11-29 10:21:49 · answer #1 · answered by Sugar Plum Fairy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alcohol explains the low sex drive. Some alcoholics can only do it when they have a fake erection when they wake up in the morning. It's the erection they get when they need to pee. Other then that,the penis stops working all together. Porn may be what he looks at to feel better when he is depressed. This guy has some problems and for whatever reason you loved him enough to marry him anyway. Those problems will only get worse if he doesn't change them himself. You can't change him.
2016-05-23 03:08:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your sex drive is low, it might be how you FEEL about sex. If you come from an upbringing that looked down on sex, you might let yourself have those feelings. Have you ever had a sex drive? If you did and you lost it, then figure out what was going on with your life when you lost it.
Oh and a woman's sex drive actually increases in mid thirties...
2006-11-29 10:20:48 · answer #3 · answered by yeschef2003 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
mmmm have you thought that its your boyfriend --- guys dont need a lot to be in the mood but ladies need some romance something to ignite the fire ---- so maybe your boyfriend should look at that as well --- and it will make it a LOT better for him as well
2006-11-29 10:19:02 · answer #4 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try experimenting with something different, delve into your fantasies and ask him to help you, trust me he will not disagree. take romantic baths, and long walks, and just have a romantic time and let your emtions go with you, and lead you someplace new.
2006-11-29 10:19:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watch porn, experiment with anal, and maybe bring your boyfriend a present (like your best friend into the bedroom). that'll jump start ya.
2006-11-29 10:18:29 · answer #6 · answered by kjhenkel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you have to enjoy sex a lot............to want it a lot........or you re just going through the motions......to please someone else......and not you.
first thing, sit down and see what your real feelings of sex are........do you like it? are you afraid of pregnancy etc?
2006-11-29 10:18:44 · answer #7 · answered by purefire41 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HaHa i think its a girl thing :P
2006-11-29 10:19:09 · answer #8 · answered by Tracey Lee ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what turns u on? lol
2006-11-29 10:18:14 · answer #9 · answered by 2dogs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋