Would you go back with an ex who cheated on you?

Question

I dated this guy for about 2 1/2 months and he ended up cheating on me with his ex on more than one occassion. I gave him another chance so long as he promised not to talk to her ever again but then he did and we broke up because he said he was in love with her. Now he realizes I'm the best relationship he has ever had and I miss him terribly. Everyone tells me not to go back to him because he cheated but I can't help but want him back. What would you do?

Answer 1

That all depends! I would be too hurt and mad to even consider it right away. You sound like you know what you want to do. We have our own opinion so I say follow your heart. If you do give it another try and it happens again, then by all mean do not do it again.

Answer 2

Well honey your heart is telling u to do one thing, and your mind is telling u to do another. In this case I would dump him no matter how much I want to be with him. Basically, if I stayed with him i would be showing that i did not deserve respect. And also, u already gave him a 2nd chance, he doesn't deserve a third one. If u get back together with him, these problems will not go away-they will resurface. Accidents don't happen twice. He's not worth ur time. This may be hard, but u will feel great afterward.
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Answer 3

No. If he's cheating this early, he's going to continue to do it until you stop seeing him. He's made his bed, let him sleep in it. You can keep letting him come back over and over. All that does is sending the message that cheating on you is ok. Send him the message that cheating is not acceptable to you and you will not stand for it and dump the loser.

What you should do is get in contact with this ex and get her side of the story. Once you know how she feels about him coming back to you all the time, he might be left with no one to date. That's what I would do.

You're worth more than a man who doesn't value you. Don't go back to him.

Answer 4

Some times a guy just has to make shure he does not love his ex. In this case it happened to you twice. you gave him a second chance. I believe this guy wants his cake and eat it to. I would be very careful with this one. I believe he want both of you. I would turn around and walk away. He will keep hurting you if you keep letting him.

Answer 5

ok.... the exact same thing happened to me, u wanted to give him a second chance and he blew it, dont degrade yourself... you can do much better then that... I was considering going back out with my ex after he told me all that mumbo jumbo about it being the best relationship and then he went out with my best friend.... dont set yourself up for a relationship you know that you can do better then him

Answer 6

listen to ur friends. and strangers. leave him. he's not worth it. its only been a short relationship and he's already cheated on u a lot. he's just going to keep on cheating on u. not worth getting urself into this relationship and finding out later that he still is cheating on u. cuz then u'll just end up hurting even more.

Answer 7

real love is forgiving, start over SLOW. dont start over expecting too much. give him a chance but keep your eyes open without being too obvious.love in the moment..dont let the past tear you apart.

Answer 8

You knew him for about 60 days and he couldn't control himself. He's not worth it, and come on-- 60 days is not a relationship worth "saving."

Answer 9

False expectations are the sourse of all mental illness.

Answer 10

I WOULD HAVE TO SAY " NO" BECAUSE HE KNOWS THAT YOU TOOK HIM BACK ONCE AND CAN PLAY WITH YOUR HEART. NEVER TAKE A MAN BACK AFTER HE'S CHEATED. REMEMBER ONCE A CHEATER ALWAYS A CHEATER. GOOD LUCK!!!