O.K. Now, I just became single after a long time and have no idea how to talk to girls. Well, I was working one day and this girl walks in and starts small talk and suddenly askes me if I wanted to go to church with her. Naturally, I said YES and we went for the first time this past week. Well, I am at a spot here where I don't know what to think. See, she is really religious and did not act at all like she was interested in me when we went to church. When we were NOT at church, she chit chatted like she was interested. Now, I could deffinitely have a relationship with her, but I think she only invited me to her church to get me to go to church. If that is the case, I am fine because I love the church. I just wander if she may be interested in me or not. Help if you can........
2006-11-29 10:05:01 · 16 answers · asked by Dave 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just try to be yourself. Ask her out sometime and do not be shy about that, it's so natural. I mean, if you want someone open the door to you, you at least(!), have to knack in it...
How more simple can it be?
2006-11-29 10:15:37 · answer #1 · answered by Bella 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds to me Like she's a Cock teaser!!!!!!! Tell you What...Message/ Email Me b/c Im Single and I Don't Tease, Only in the Bedroom....But don't get me Wrong, I Love church too, But if you Really want to Start dating again and Find out if a Girl is interested in you, and Not just for a Buddy to Sit with at Church, KNOW HER INTENSIONS FIRST!!!!!!!!!!!! Find out if the Girl wants a BF at the time, Or Better yet, Hook up with me! LOL
2006-11-29 10:10:54 · answer #2 · answered by kittysweetie19 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If she is a respectable, religious young lady then don't be afraid of asking her anything. Just ask her out, continue to go to church with her, but go other places as well. Ask her if she could ever think of you as more than friends or if she is interested in having a relationship with you of that level. She'll be honest and receptive and not judgemental.
2006-11-29 10:17:10 · answer #3 · answered by abgurlie2004 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
talk to her and take it slow if your just got out of a relationship i wouldn't rush it either. as her out on a date out side of church no movies or a show you can't talk and if you take her out to dinner not fast food ask her where she like to go if she says she doesn't care best be is a resturant with viarty so you can see what she likes then ask if she interseted when you say good bye kiss her on the cheek and bring a rose the next day
2006-11-29 10:12:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should wait to see if she wants to go out again, somewhere OTHER than church. Obviously in church she isn't going to be flirtatious because it's the house of God...there's a time & place for everything and dates usually don't happen in church.
2006-11-29 10:08:14 · answer #5 · answered by sweetsistah 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She's interested in you. She can go to church with anybody, but she is choosing you. She likes you a lot. If you really want to know her feelings, invite her to a church one day and then tell her that you change your mind and you want to go in the parc.
2006-11-29 10:15:34 · answer #6 · answered by BRIANA 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think its kinda funny how she asked you to go to church, which is cool on her- it seems like something i would do, just to see how much a girl is into me, will she do the craziest things, just to be with me- just a thought- go for it, and if it doesn't work out, then hey, it doesn't work out. Such is life.. but good luck
2006-11-29 10:22:31 · answer #7 · answered by Orion23 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's easy my friend,
You allready be her friend for next step you have to ask your self do you want her to be your GIRLFRIEND or just to be a regular friend??? if your answer as girlfriend you should bring her out ( not church ) maybe candle light dinner,watch movie,etc than if you get a good respond from her is your time ask her to be your girlfriend,,,,,,,,good luck.
2006-11-29 10:20:20 · answer #8 · answered by ALOHA BOY 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you will be able to answer that question. You should be able to tell by the way she talks to you, what topics she talks about. Is there any physical contact, holding your hand or arm around yours etc.
2006-11-29 10:09:14 · answer #9 · answered by Wibble 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's not interested. she only act like she likes u when your not in church but if u like some one you act that way all the time and not on certain days.
2006-11-29 10:08:41 · answer #10 · answered by daytona_girl18 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋