My ex boyfriend dumped me after dating for a month. At the time we were going out i didnt think i liked him that much. But as soon as we broke up i started to miss him. To make matters worse he is now going out with my best friend. What do i do?
2006-11-29 10:01:38 · 37 answers · asked by unlucky bubblegu^^ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nothing. He dumped you after 30 days, he'll probably do the same to her.
2006-11-29 10:03:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 1⤋
A break-up is almost always hard, even if it was for only a month. But as far as missing him, don't fret chica, you will soon forget all about him, and whenever you think about him think about what a slime he is for dating your "best friend" ( a title that she obviously NEVER deserved!) But don't fight with her, it only makes it look worse, and the slime ball would probably enjoy it, and he sounds like a total jerk so she will get what she deserves anyway,just quit talking to her, and find friends that are loyal and will respect and appreciate you!That girl was NEVER really your friend, and for her to throw away your friendship over a gut is ludacris! If she will do that to you imagine what other things she is capable of! Try to listen to some music, like Beyonce's Me. Myself, & I, it really helped me. Good luck Sweetness!
2006-11-29 10:47:00 · answer #2 · answered by pitbull lover 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You so called best friend is not your friend. And he is playing games with your head. Dump both of them. A best friend does not go out with her friends ex. Simple as that. How could you ever trust her of him again? Ask yourself what are you getting out of this? Pain, crying, etc. Get rid of both of them they deserve each other. Soon a nice good kid will come along that respects you and treats you the way you deserve. And, there are plenty of friends to be made. Go out shopping with one of your other friends. Mr. right could walk right past you and you might miss him. Chin up kiddo..............you have a long haul in front of you and plenty of time to date.
2006-11-29 10:08:30 · answer #3 · answered by Rosa 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He dumped you, not the other way around. It's his loss not yours. Wait to see how the relationship goes with him and your best friend. The best thing to do is show your support. It's not easy to do, but if you don't show any hostility he will know who to go to when their relationship goes south. Since there is a chance that it will keep going, keep your options open. Don't pine away on one guy, obviously if he dumped you after a month he didn't feel the same way or give himself enough time to let the relationship develop.
2006-11-29 10:06:43 · answer #4 · answered by LoveRomeo 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, it sounds more like you miss having someone there for you all the time that you can trust and be close to. If your best friend truly is your best friend and she is worth keeping, let it go and support her. She is living her own life as is your ex. Now it is time to move on and find someone you do like being in a relationship with.
Hope this helped,
Delorean
2006-11-29 10:05:07 · answer #5 · answered by springsdelorean113 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Before I go with the ex-girlfriend of my best friend, I would ask him for his consent. It's a matter of respect between friends. If he doesn't want me to go with his ex, I wouldn't do it.
2006-11-29 10:06:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your ex is just doing what some men do best, be an a.s.s.
Your best friend is a slutbucket.
Ditch both of them and move on to bigger and better things honey.
You deserve it. Be good to you first...always.
2006-11-29 10:06:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find someone else to date. And as for your friend, if she wants to date him, let her, but if it makes you feel bad every time you see your friend, I would think about your friendship with her too.
2006-11-29 10:06:06 · answer #8 · answered by Drew 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
who cares about the guy, you need to ditch the friend, girl! Any friend who has the nerve to not only step over the girlfriend bonds of trust but rule out the chicks before dicks patten.....shouldnt be your friend. id get both of them out of your life, bcz they are obviously below you and are not worth your time!
2006-11-29 10:21:06 · answer #9 · answered by samsam 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
MOVE ON!!!! he is not what you want even if you think he is. i have a feeling you are like i used to be and you just do not want to be alone. i will tell you right now that it is good if you are because you can really get to know yourself before you enter another relationship. i don't know how you feel about your best friend now but i think you need to evaluate your friendship. i know that you can do better so like i said MOVE ON!!!!!
2006-11-29 10:08:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋