2006-11-29 09:54:00 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
I have asked to be forgiven,more then once.I have said I am sorry for the offence more then once.I have prayed and recieved forgiveness from God.And I have forgiven myself,but they will not forgive me.
2006-11-29 10:04:24 · update #1
As long as you have clearly forgiven them, the best thing to do for them is to pray that forgiveness comes into their heart. They are accountable for that.
2006-11-29 10:40:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes forgiving someone is not so easy as a snap of the fingers; our love for each other is not perfect. If you have sincerely asked for forgiveness and were not forgiven, be as considerate as you can be when you encounter him/her, but this may be a relationship not worth persuing, give the person time and space and move on.
2006-11-29 18:12:13 · answer #2 · answered by volleyjacket 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't say what you did to offend him? Being a Christian doesn't mean he has to forgive you. You must have did some terrible thing. What was it? Did you cheat on him? Come on honey fess up if you want my sympathy I'm not going to be one of these sympathetic sheep and blame the other person for not forgiving you unless I know what you are to be forgiven for. I know you will get plenty of sympathy from others on here but not from me. Kisses Betty.
2006-11-29 18:05:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even some Christians have very critical spirits! There's not a lot you can do, other than what you've done. You've asked their forgiveness, and God's, just pray for them and move on.
2006-11-29 17:58:53 · answer #4 · answered by lookn2cjc 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you apologized to this person and they still won't forgive you, you have done all you can do. Just leave them alone and let them cool off. As long as you apologize to this person and God you are ok. If this person is a real friend they will forgive you!
2006-11-29 18:02:38 · answer #5 · answered by white_and_maroon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm Christian myself, and as much as we try to be like Jesus, human nature seems to kick in a bit. Whoever is having trouble forgiving you, I'd say to pray for them. That's the most you can do, for them and for yourself.
2006-11-29 18:01:06 · answer #6 · answered by hillz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what if they don't forgive you? You fulfilled your end of the bargain. Who're people going to like more, the stubborn one, or the one who forgives?
By the way, was there an apology involved?
2006-11-29 17:57:51 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they expect God to forgive them, they too must be able to forgive. If they are true Christians then they know this. Tell them this and forgive them and walk away. It will be up to them after that.
2006-11-29 18:00:49 · answer #8 · answered by Dakota Lynn Takes Gun 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you have to remember that Jesus said if you don't forgive someone their sins then god the father wont forgive you ask them to forgive so and be serious about it and move on with your life you done what you could the rest is on them
2006-11-29 17:59:07 · answer #9 · answered by Trace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they refuse to forgive you, then you have to go on. Pray for them, but don't dwell on the matter. If your not careful, you'll find yourself dwelling on it, and before you know it, you've allowed it to rob you of your peace and joy, and the other person has already moved on.
2006-11-29 17:59:48 · answer #10 · answered by Fugitive Peices 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋