how do i move on?

Question

me and my bf just broke up and i dont want him anymore cuz hes such a jerk to me now (ignoring and all to me and is telling lies to ppl left and right acting like an ***) hes not the guy he was while we were going out but like i still cant imagin being, kissing, hugging, talking on the phone with another guy, and i hate imaging him with another girl or even seeing him talk to another girl. is this normal?? what should i do? like i guess i still could have something for him but its out the question cuz our parents wont let us be together (thats the truth why we broke up, his mom hates me viceversa cuz we got introuble and his mom blames me 4 everything...but he is telling ppl he got sick of me...hence the *** thing)but anywayz. he doesnt want me back and is a coward so wouldnt go aginst his mom. so what do i do. it hurts seeing him and knowing we dont have what we did, but i need to move on from him so is what im feeling normal or what? and what should i do about this whole situation

Answer 1

It's completely normal. Don't worry about it, he obviously doesn't deserve you. I know it hurts, I've been through the same thing. But every day, it will hurt a little less, until it doesn't hurt at all. I'm sure you had a lot of great times with him, and you should never forget them, but at the same time, you should try to accept the fact that it's over now. Hang out with your friends, have lots of fun, don't be afraid to cry, or talk to someone about it. You'll feel better soon, trust me.

Hope this helps, and I hope you feel better.

Answer 2

this is so very normal. i went through a similar situation with my daughters father. i had to move on and at this point i had no problem with it. the worst thing you can do is even in anyway let him no that this is how you are feeling. if you think about it this way you are better off and you will find someone who is really going to be there for you and care for you as much as you do for him. remember you are a great person and you deserve the best. i know people have probably already told you that and you just blow it off but it is TRUE!!! i am now with the most wonderful man and i don't know what i ever saw in my fathers daughter. my boyfriend now (going on two years) is more than i could ever ask for and i know now that i deserve him because i deserve everything wonderful that there is to have in this world, i want you to feel the same way. life will go on and you will get over this sooner than later i hope. just try to keep thinking about you and no-one else for a while (unless you have children) and work on doing great things in your life and you will succeed. believe in yourself thats all you can do and ignore the bad things in your life. i wish you the best.

Answer 3

Well we all have our own problems but it sounds like you couldn't make him jealous by dating someone else better than him -- because that thought makes you ill. So his Mom doesn't want you together, I would have to guess that going up against his family is going to be impossible. Can you go to school someplace else? It is normal to be jealous seeing him talking/flirting with someone else. But you have to know he may be hurting just as much as you somewhere deep inside. But he is a guy and is putting on the brave front since he is probably afraid of his Mom. Maybe you can find something else to occupy your time, like joining a club at school. He will then see that you didn't need him and have moved on with a full life and that will let him know you are a great woman that he 'lost'. Good luck and keep your chin up!

Answer 4

you're 15, you have enought time to move on. focus on school...you still have a semester left. I'm assuming he's in your school as well, so you really can't do anything. Let him date whoever he wants, that way he'll stop talking smack about you. Go out with your friends to movies, bowling, shopping, w/e. Don't think about about the guy. As for not imagining yourself with other guys, well...you're 15, you have time before you can do that with other guys. So don't rush your recovery, take it a day at a time but set a goal for yourself to not let this get in the way of your own emotional, physical, and educational development and growth. You know you're better than let this really get to you.

Answer 5

Its 100% normal. Your not over him yet but you will be. He is a jurk. Go out with another guy and thats how you get over him. Make the guy sweet and you know thats great. He doesn't have to be cute all he has to be isa good guy and that will help. Oh yeah go out with the guy more than once or you would be using him.

Answer 6

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Answer 7

you're abviously still in lve with him, so it's gonna take you sometime before you can move on. so the best thing to do is to grieve 'your loss,' that way you'll get rid of all the anger and frustration.
It's fine to stare at the closed doer, you needn't look for the other open door immediately, because the heart has to first forget or at least learn to live with the loss.
Don't try tooo hard to make yourself forget, that'll only add to you emotional strain, just give it time

Answer 8

Well yes. all that your feeling is normal. It's still recent give it some time. Your still young and from what you say he sound like a jerk any way. You dont deserve that you definitelly can do much better.

Answer 9

it may take some time, but you'll soon get over him. If u 2 were meant 2 be fait will bring u 2 back together.

Answer 10

its normal just back off for a bit and go out with somebody else for a while