You have the guy chase you forever, but the moment he stops chasing you for GOOD, then your real feelings come out and you won't leave ther guy alone.
Seriously I have seen women go physco insane because the guy they liked stopped chasing them, but if you really wanted him why did you keep running.
Now that he doesn't want to chase no more you do this, Why?
2006-11-29 08:52:12 · 27 answers · asked by crazy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, I guess this is pretty true for most women. Girls don't like guys to think that they're too easy to get. Most women like to be chased. But I think that after a certain period most women stop playing hard to get and just start a normal relationship with some guy. Of course this period may vary.....sometimes it might be 3-4 weeks but it can even last months. It really depends.
2006-11-29 08:57:46 · answer #1 · answered by Full Blown Rose 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Women like to be chased. Attention like that, makes a girl feel good about themselves. Whether or not the girl is attracted to that person. Some women are so vain that when the guy stops chasing, they want it back so bad that they may act interested just to get attention back.
2006-11-29 16:57:59 · answer #2 · answered by care_bear1108 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At least for me, if a man pursues me and I am not interested, I am not interested. If he suddenly stops pursuing me, I miss the feeling of "being special" to that person, I miss perhaps the companionship and such, but I have tried dating some of those men, and I get tired of them RIGHT AWAY. If it was going to be right, it would have been right from the beginning. Don't waste time on a woman that does this. She's not being a bad person, she just isn't any good at being honest with herself and others. It takes us all a few years to learn that.
And if the man had TRULY stopped chasing her for good, why does it even MATTER? :) Perhaps this girl is not the ONLY person being dishonest with herself. :) Good luck.
2006-11-29 16:58:33 · answer #3 · answered by stillstanding 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't that completely suck! some people like the chase more the the relationship, but the chase always get old, you can only chase someone so long before they say forget this..
God Bless
2006-11-29 16:58:45 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's actually a pretty good question ...
It all depends on the girl's mind ...
Some think that he's probably playing around and making fun so she doesnt believe he's telling the truth ...
Or the girl is just too shy ...
Or her friends are a little coocoo that they gice the girl he likes the wrong information about his love ...
Or its because she wants him to make the first move ect ...
2006-11-29 17:04:10 · answer #5 · answered by Xuia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that guy at the top of the list is wrong sorta, it's called catstring theory, if i give you a brand new one ton dodge pickup you'll probably tear the **** out of it if you buy it yourself you'll respect it at the same time when dangling a piece of yarn infront of a cat the cat will go insane but when you drop it they will lose interest in minutes if not seconds. people want what they can't have and if they get what they want with little or no effort they trash it or at best do not respect it and quickly lose interest
2006-11-29 17:00:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's the allure of an unavailable man. To some women having a man be unavailable is sexy.
The lesson here from your experience. Don't be too available, you may find better like if you put in an even mix.
2006-11-29 16:57:20 · answer #7 · answered by digitalkitty98 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I liked a guy and he chased me I'd be thrilled! Some girls just want attention or like the chase. Not all girls are like that. Maybe you tend to like flirtatious girls?
2006-11-29 16:55:39 · answer #8 · answered by Christabelle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mind games, that's all it is. That and a lot of people like the feeling of being desired and not having to return the feelings because the moment they do the desire might go away. I've done it.
2006-11-29 16:54:29 · answer #9 · answered by snowbaby 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The thirll of the chase and wanting something you can't have. I would suggest going for someone a little more mature and confident.
Good luck!
2006-11-29 16:55:13 · answer #10 · answered by MT Hammer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋