hi im 12 yrs. old and in the 7th grade..... im in love with one of my best freinds......she just broke up with her boyfreind a while ago{she dumped him}.......whats the best way i can ask her out ..... she knows i love her and i know she likes me but im pretty nervous
..........plz help
2006-11-29 08:49:55 · 10 answers · asked by Z 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just be yourself. There is no need to be nervous around her. girls can pick up on that kind of thing. Be calm and appear confident!
Try asking her to come over to watch a movie, or help you study. Or you could try something less subtle and just ask her out to dinner and a movie.
Though, if she just broke up with someone, give her a little bit of time. You don't want to be the rebound guy.
2006-11-29 16:54:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to ask is to suggest something you both like and tell her you want to make it a date. If you are trying to be her boyfriend make sure you let her know you like her but, give her space. Be relaxed. When you feel nervous don't worry about whether she will say no; think about if you are enjoying yourself and if you are being polite.
2006-11-29 17:02:46 · answer #2 · answered by Rose 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there will be many loves in your life i encourage you to focus on something else you,re only 12 years old you have your whole life ahead of you to think about girls.remember todays dream lays the foundation for tomorrow.girls will come and go dont be nervous its ok care about someone other then yourself but remember you are to young for a relationship good luck
2006-11-29 17:04:26 · answer #3 · answered by annjilena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My best advice is to tell her how you feel. I mean, if she already knows the truth, and you know she likes you too, she will say yes. What have you got to lose? I say all or nothing. Once the question is out of the way, you will feel on top of the world, I assure you.
2006-11-29 16:54:15 · answer #4 · answered by Taylor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take her somewhere she would enjoy maybe ice skating depending on where you live or to a movie. But just relax and if she turns you down its because you two are good friends and she doesnt want to mess the freindship up. So just relax, thats the best thing to do.
2006-11-29 16:53:36 · answer #5 · answered by pat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awwwwwwww..........middle school love. my friend has been in this situation and i have to just the other way around of course because im a girl. well i think that you should like write her a note. or just ask her in person. but be very sweet.
2006-11-29 16:54:55 · answer #6 · answered by toocutenhot 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at 12 the last thing you need to think about is a gf. they are nothing but trouble. but if you realy must just be yourself. shes just a girl. Also you may want to let your parent(s) know how you feel.
2006-11-29 16:54:04 · answer #7 · answered by short 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is your best friend then you shouldn't ask her out, because you'll be putting your friendship at risk. because you are gonna break up at some point, and your friendship might not withstand that, so you should juts settle for being friends.
2006-11-29 16:53:57 · answer #8 · answered by the S'bu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask her
2006-11-29 16:51:51 · answer #9 · answered by babie919 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋