My husband and I wanted to announce my pregnancy at the next family get together, but I will only be 4 weeks then.
Should we wait in case I miscarry or just tell everyone anyways?
I have never been pregnant before and would feel awful if I miscarried and had to tell our families.
2006-11-29 08:27:39 · 19 answers · asked by PrettyWifey 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
It's up to you two...If you wait and something happens, then you won't have to suffer the pitty from so many people.
But if you have strong ties and want everyone to be with you every step of the way, then go on and tell them.
Congratulations you two.
2006-11-29 08:30:47 · answer #1 · answered by Dolphin lover 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My sister had been trying for over a year and got pregnant and miscarried in March. She said she wished she hadn't told anyone. She announced on Thanksgiving she was pregnant again, this time 25 weeks! I'm not saying wait that long but you may want to wait until after the first trimester.
Congrats!
2006-11-29 08:31:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The first trimester (3 mounths) of your pregnancy is the most crucial.If you are in good health and have never really had any female problems,I don't see any reason why you should not share this joyous event with the families.Yes It would be awful if a mis-carrage should happen...but then you have the help and support of the families at that time too.It's very hard for anyone to keep secrets.Good or Bad
2006-11-29 08:40:34 · answer #3 · answered by Lynn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would wait a little while longer. I announced my first pregnancy early and miscarried and had to tell everyone the bad news. It's hard to tell your family that kind of news because it's a let-down for them and a mournful situation for you. Congratulations though!!
2006-11-29 08:35:28 · answer #4 · answered by adrian9402 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be advisable to tell your family now.
Not only would they be insulted if you didn't tell them, but you'd be less supported without them. Unless you feel that you want to keep this to yourself for private reasons, why not let everyone share in the joy?
After all, even if you do miscarry- you'll have your family to support you and help you get through the tragedy. And they'll notice that you're pregnant eventually anyway.
Congratulations and hopefully your pregnancy will go smoothly!
2006-11-29 08:48:40 · answer #5 · answered by sweateredpanda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are healthy and have no reason to believe you will miscarry then announce away - most people I know announced as soon as the pregnancy test was positive (lol). It's really up to you and your husband but it your Dr didn't give you any indication to worry about then announce away and enjoy sharing such exciting and happy news!
2006-11-29 08:31:29 · answer #6 · answered by Walking on Sunshine 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it would be up to you and your husband. But speaking from experience...i wouldn't until your far enough along...I told everyone i knew when i found out i was pregnant, and when i went to my first ultrasound my baby had no heartbeat :( So then it sucked having to tell people...and then it was hard when someone asked me how i was feeling....Next time i get pregnant im not telling anyone until i hear the heartbeat....like 12-15 weeks along atleast....good luck and i hope your pregnancy goes well 4 YOU!!!
2006-11-29 08:51:17 · answer #7 · answered by pregnant with # 2 :-) 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should wait until you are about 3 months along before you make the announcement. Wait until you "know" it's going to be ok before you tell everyone.
2006-11-29 08:32:31 · answer #8 · answered by kj 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are that excited go ahead and spread the word!
But if you are worried about telling the news of a miscarriage I would advise against telling everyone.
It is very early on, but still your choice. And a personal choice at that. I hope it works out! Good luck! And congrats!!!! :)
2006-11-29 08:31:06 · answer #9 · answered by Jessie D. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i told my family i was pregnant and then lost baby i needed the rh shot that is why i kept miscarrying. i had alot of family help me and my husbands loss. congrats. your family will be so happy you are pregnant i would tell them. i dont regret telling my family i got pregnant right after loosing the previous baby we had a healthy baby girl.
2006-11-29 08:34:32 · answer #10 · answered by mama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋