I met a well-employed, very handsome guy who lived about a half mile from me. We hooked up and dated for about six weeks. He said he traveled a lot. I was not clingy or needy and we had fun, but we never went out in public or to his house. I began to question things fairly soon and googled him. I found out he lied to me about his last name, possibly where he worked, and more...so I wrote him an email (he says he is traveling) and broke it off. He then took the power back and just dismissed me out of hand like I was some kind of piece of meat. (I had not been in a relationship physical or otherwise in years). I feel a little like some revenge. Anybody have any suggestions for me?
2006-11-29 08:08:32 · 6 answers · asked by La_Liona 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
best revenge is to move on and live your life.
2006-11-29 08:11:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out all you can about this man. He has a second and probably a third life somewhere. I wouldn't suggest you do anything against the law. I would find his other family and reveal his lies. It would be very revengeful to have him walk in his house from work and find you there. His family should know what he has been doing. If he does have a wife you are completely innocent so don't worry about anything. I think you seeing the look on his face if you choose to do this would be satisfaction enough.
2006-11-29 16:14:58 · answer #2 · answered by crazy_dazy17 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need revenge against scum like that. The best you could do was start working out, go have fun w/ your friends, find a way to meet your goals in life and the next time you run into him he'll probably want you more. Turn him down & that will be your revenge.
You are better then he is.
2006-11-29 16:12:25 · answer #3 · answered by Niko 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did you ever talk to him about everything before you googled him? I mean just by googling him it meant you obviously didn't trust him, so you had no business dating him anyways, but at the same time I could see why you were getting suspicious. honestly I don't think you should get revenge mainly because karma is a ***** and he'll get his. if you plot something and go through with it, karma will be just as ugly to you.
but I can't say I haven't been a victim of vengeance.. lol.. there's funny lil things like laxitives (sp) and putting fiber glass in his laundry (if you have that kind of access to his things) what the fiber glass does is acts as itching poweder, but it comes out looking like lint, so the person wouldn't know you put anything in it.
lol hope I've been helpfull ^.^
2006-11-29 16:32:18 · answer #4 · answered by .:*giggles*:. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure how he took the power back if you broke up with him in the first place.
You could always do the Sex and the City thing and print his picture and some "special" words about him and plaster them around where he lives.
What would be better would be the best revenge - moving on and showing him that you are way better than him and don't need him at all!
2006-11-29 16:14:24 · answer #5 · answered by teel2624 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i cant put it on here, you really want to know, email me and i will tell you.........
2006-11-29 16:11:16 · answer #6 · answered by cr4is2py0 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋