my boyfrnd broke up with me right now because he told me he was getting a job by where his xgirl is working i told him i cant deal with it if that is the case. Ive been heart broken like this i wont go through it again he just said fine if your going to give up then i will to its over what do i do... I really love him
2006-11-29 08:05:17 · 7 answers · asked by curious girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well....if you really cared for him that is something you just shouldnt have done he didnt dump you it seems from your description you dumped him and he just didnt fight it. If you love him want to be with him you are gonna have to trust that he wont do you dirty
2006-11-29 08:08:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry you are heartbroken but it sounds as if you are to blaim. Why are you so insecure in your relationship? He is working BY her not with her to begin with. You have found him guilty of doing something before he has even done it. He came to you and told where he was going to be working and the situation he will be put in, he didnt choose to or try to hide it from you. Give him a little credit where its due. And more importantly, he chose to be with you, they broke up for a reason and you 2 are/were together for another reason.
If you truly love him then you have to trust him.
2006-11-29 16:15:02 · answer #2 · answered by KTINA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just told you he doesn't want you to give up. Find out if he plans on trying to make things work too and VOILA! It doesn't have to be difficult. Sometimes we have to remind ourselves that there are choices that must be made, and all have consequences, some good and some bad. Buit the worse coice is to make no choice b/c then fate dictates your future. Make your future your own and decide whether youy are going to try and get past this or move on. Easy.
2006-11-29 16:10:04 · answer #3 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really loved him, you would have trust that at the end of the day, your man is coming home to you and that's all that should matter. now, my question is.. is this the same guy that broke your heart by cheating before? if he is, I could see why you gave him an ultimatum, but continuing dating period is risking heartbreak. what you have to ask yourself is, is this guy worth it? if it's not him, then it's wrong of you to base your judgement of him off another guy.
2006-11-29 16:11:05 · answer #4 · answered by .:*giggles*:. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
him givin up so quickly like dat is probably a sign that he is gonna be up to suttin over there. take sum time to heal and move on girlie...he aint worth it.
2006-11-29 16:08:50 · answer #5 · answered by mspersistnt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just realize there are other fish in the see and better ones so go out and catch one
2006-11-29 16:09:00 · answer #6 · answered by jason_isake 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a relationship is built on trust if you can't trust him to work with his ex, then you guys probally shouldn't be together..or do you think he still has feelings for her?
2006-11-29 16:10:49 · answer #7 · answered by misty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋