A guy with whom I had a friendship, 1 one-night stand incl., abroad two years ago is suddenly txting me again. When he left the country it took me one year to get over him. Then there were two years silence. Now i moved to the uk and there he is again.
Does he just needs a f***buddy or what do u think?
2006-11-29 07:47:54 · 24 answers · asked by whyme? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask him!
What do you want?
2006-11-29 07:49:34 · answer #1 · answered by me4tennessee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If feel uncomfortable about reconnecting with him, keep it low profile.
You did not state how he knew you were available in the area so assume you or a mutual acquaintance notified him.
If you did, think about what your reasoning was in that.
If he contacted you totally by surprise......maybe something in the season caused him to re-remember you and thought it would be nice to touch base.....sometimes fond memories make us refond for someone.
If do make contact with him and agree to meet somewhere cautiously do not allow yourself to be physical with him again until you can better see the agenda.
May just realize how much should have valued your friendship and wishes to persue.......or may remember how easy the physical compliance was before ---- your call!
2006-11-29 15:54:00 · answer #2 · answered by Marsha 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it took you a year to get over a 1 night stand, stay away from him!!! You don't want to spend the rest of your life getting over a relationship!! If he didn't talk to you for 2 years, he probley just wants laid.
2006-11-29 15:50:36 · answer #3 · answered by Beck 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be careful of this situation it may be that he just wants someone around that he can call on when he fancies a bit. However let him do the running, he may be genuine and it might have taken for him to see you again to realise. Play it cool..
2006-11-29 15:51:01 · answer #4 · answered by ~Cat~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
approach with wariness. 2 years silence and now suddenly he wants to mess you about again hmmm. it took you a year to get over him. why waste the hard work you put in. sod him. you cn do better and let HIM wonder
2006-11-29 15:51:46 · answer #5 · answered by DesertRose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he needs a f*** buddy do go there again if it took u a year to get over him is it worth going through it all again
2006-11-29 15:50:01 · answer #6 · answered by tjtwix1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he see's you as an easy lay.
dont even talk to him on the phone or your asking for trouble. sex with an ex is never good. and a one night stand should remain a one night stand.
2006-11-29 15:51:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just wants a one night stand partner. The hell with him.
2006-11-29 15:53:22 · answer #8 · answered by Webballs 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he needs a F*** buddy. Maybe he has feelings for you. None of us can tell you that. If you are curious you can talk to him.
2006-11-29 15:50:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looking for a friend with benefits definitely.
2006-11-29 15:50:27 · answer #10 · answered by Grá 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe, If you think thats whay he wants get him to take you out on a few dates, DON'T sleep with him. If he hangs around then maybe he really does want you.
2006-11-29 15:50:23 · answer #11 · answered by catz**eyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋