Can you answer this?

Question

This question is to the women out there who are involved in a relationship with a man who you know for a fact has a wife or girlfriend. What keeps you holding on? In other words, why do you stick around for so long even if he's had 2 or 3 different main women.

Answer 1

1.cuz you dont think you deserve better
2.cuz you are afraid of being in a real one on one relationship

Answer 2

Because you are drawn to him. Maybe he is giving you something that you can't find anywhere else. So try and be your own person, in other words go find a different guy, or go hang out with some friends.

Answer 3

It's happen to me once......
I think you just don't think about it -it's starts out as a simple crush or just fun (like getting drinks) and before you know it your suck in.... and like lots of parts of life... it just takes you a while to wake up and see where you really are....
Then you have to crawl out of the hole you just dug.

It's been 6 years and that married Jackars actually looked me up and called me last month. I just kept asking about his wife and kids, he got the drift.

Answer 4

BECAUSE WE ALWAYS WANT WHAT WE CAN'T HAVE. AND IF HE'S INVOLVED WITH SOMEONE ELSE, THEN YOU GET ALL OF THE SEX, FUN, AND EXCITEMENT OF BEING WITH HIM WHILE THE SIGNIFICANT OTHER HAS TO PICK UP BEHIND HIS SORRY A** AND BEG HIM TO TAKE OUT THE TRASH. YOU'VE GOT THE BETTER DEAL HONEY. TRUST ME.

Answer 5

Now being on both ends it's about not having to commit to one person. you don't have to worry about the other trying to stick around...either yourself or other has to go. you have your fun and go about your business.

Answer 6

You always want what you can't really have.........Let him go!