I have been dating this guy named Cody for about 1 months now almost and it has been good luck ever since...* he lifts me up when i'm down, my me smile when i frown, does everything to make me laugh, i don't want him in the past.*
srsly- i lyke him a lot - love him, pretty much, and things are going so good. whenever he hears i am depressed [bpd] he is always there cheering me up... i am just worried that all he wants is sex... however i highly doubt this. B/C... i spent the night at his house and we didn't kiss or anything we just cuddled.. and it would make perfect sense that he really likes me... any thoughts on the situation?
2006-11-29 07:30:27 · 8 answers · asked by Lozer [[RawrRawrHerbivore]] 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well this is only my opinion based upon my own experience but honestly....its rare that you are trully in love with a person after 1 month. I believe that there is so much to be learned about the other person before you can call it love. It is a good start though that he seems SO caring and sensitive. Its hard to find a man who please a wormen emotionally and spiritually and sexually. My advice is to nurture the relationship 1st and see what happens. Arguements and disagreements are normal.....how well do you two get through them. Sex based on the act itself is cheap and waiting until you BOTH are comfortable would be my best advice.
2006-11-29 07:38:49 · answer #1 · answered by csumicro 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He seems like a good guy.
Don't bring your hopes up too high now. Or you may get really hurt. Especially if it's only like 1 month. Just take it one day at a time.
If you want to find out if he's in it for the sex, DON'T HAVE SEX WITH HIM. Waiting till you're married will determine whether or not they really love you or if they just want sex.
2006-11-29 15:36:43 · answer #2 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are still in honeymoon stage, until about 3 months, it means everything is going smooth, great and exciting. you could not asked anything more. I think he just want the relationship to run smoothly and slowly, I mean you've been with him for a month. Just enjoy each others company, don't rush or think something negative, go with the flow and don't think immaturely coz that's will ruin the relationship. goodluck!
2006-11-29 15:38:40 · answer #3 · answered by sure_whatever_29 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have been going out for a month then i highly doubt that all he wants is sex. He sounds like a good guy.
2006-11-29 15:33:36 · answer #4 · answered by boredgirl21 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if all he wanted was sex he wouldnt still be there with you...he sounds like a good guy!so stay with him to see waht the future could hold
2006-11-29 15:35:37 · answer #5 · answered by iluvrelientk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he likes you alot as do you im sure. just make sure you dont let your relationship get to self centered ex= only talking about you or never helping him. good luck. i hope i works out best for you.
2006-11-29 15:34:56 · answer #6 · answered by question man 911 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what were YOU doing sleeping over in the house of a guy you barely know for one month?
2006-11-29 15:41:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah whats your question... obviously he likes you, just stick with it
2006-11-29 15:33:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋