Common dilemna......you have a friend.....then at some point you end up liking her. She sees you as a friend. This is the worst scenario for any guy. A few souls have been able to escape the black hole called the Friend Zone.....but very few.
How do you do it?
2006-11-29 07:23:49 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well.... my boyfriend and I were friends for over a year and he said he instantly fell for me when he saw a picture of me. He wanted to meet me. So we met and we became friends.
And over a year later, I suddenly had feelings for him for some reason. That's whenever he asked to hang out with me one Friday night. I never knew I would like him back... but I did.
We have been together for 9 1/2 months now.
There is no RIGHT WAY to get out of a "friend zone." It depends on if the girl likes you or not. Ask to hang out with her... if you're not sure if it's a date, open the door for her. Then she'll say, "Thank you." Then YOU'LL say, "That's what you do on a date, right?" HAHAHA that's what my boyfriend did to me. I couldn't say anything... I just laughed.
Basically, it just depends on if they like you back or not. See if she does when you hang out together one day... just the two of you.
If it's meant to be, it WILL be. If not, just remember that God has a plan for you and he will bring you the right girl in His time. Just have faith in Him. : }
2006-11-29 07:27:44 · answer #1 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Slash her tires. That will definitely get you out of the Friend Zone. Seriously, though, it's about creating sexual tension. Leaving little hints for her - the way you hold eye contact a little too long, touch her a little too often. Stuff like that will get her thinking. Don't make the wussy move of coming out and spilling your feelings. If you want to be that forward, just go in for a kiss and see how she responds.
2006-11-29 07:24:50 · answer #2 · answered by jesuspimper 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You want to let her know that you're interested without scaring her off, so do anything to avoid making her feel pressured or cornered in any way! The best way is to be you, the way you've always been, with a casual remark here and there about being more anytime she wants to. Let it be something of a joke, and then quickly drop it. This should get her to thinking about it without applying any pressure. You will know soon enough whether or not she returns your interest.
2006-11-29 07:28:44 · answer #3 · answered by Jeri C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're probable basically no longer being aggressive adequate. in case you become passive, you become the chum. in case you like a woman permit her comprehend. women love interest. do no longer freak her out and don't smother her. basically permit her comprehend you have an interest and if she is basically too she'll permit you comprehend. no lady, i repeat, NO lady needs a sissy boy. they are asserting that because of the fact they choose somebody to speak to and get their hair achieved with and all that jazz, yet that's what their girlfriends are for. useful does not recommend an *** and worrying does not recommend sissy.
2016-12-14 09:05:46 · answer #4 · answered by pfeifer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when she is over your house walk in on her naked and act like nothing is special....she will either go two routes laugh it off and yall can continue to be friend with a funny story between each other or she will get you out of the friend zone....but even if she laugh at first it will still be on her mind and she will come back to you in her time of need....so it is a win win
2006-11-29 07:27:34 · answer #5 · answered by the one 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very few can do that. You have to appeal to some part of her psyche that lets her know that YOU want to be more than a friend without scaring ehr off
2006-11-29 07:25:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Two options:
-Keep your friends and lovers separate so you won't be in this situation in the first place.
-Just tell her how you feel by doing something special with her, something you know that she loves. If she still just sees you as a friend, tough luck.
2006-11-29 07:27:40 · answer #7 · answered by The Real Deal. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go out and say it. Sometimes girls are in that same "zone" and are asking themselves the same question as you~ XD
2006-11-29 07:25:30 · answer #8 · answered by Seung Hee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its possible... just talk to her and tell her how u feel. ask her out on a date or something like to the movies if ur sure shes single....
2006-11-29 07:27:41 · answer #9 · answered by blondie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know?
2006-11-29 07:24:55 · answer #10 · answered by Christina Leah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋