okay this is pretty whacky to do but, I just would like to get a wider horizon on this issue. I truly am stuck and do not know which guy to choose to date. Guy "A" is my exboyfriend of 2 years (2 checkered years of up and down), we've been seperated for several months now and he wants us to try again. He truly is a great guy, very caring and loving, he has a big heart, but he just doesn't quite do it for me. I love him but I'm not in love with him, you know?! Next is guy "B", now I just met him a few months ago and I don't know much about him, but to me he's new and refreshing, and no I don't see the same big heart in him as with guy "A", but he is sincere and he does give my heart an extra beat (but I'm sure that's only because things are always sweet and exciting in the begining LOL) anyhow I need help, do I stick with what I know and learn to love; or do I risk it and take a chance on a possible new love?
2006-11-29 07:16:35 · 9 answers · asked by darylann 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well that is pretty tough. Especially since u've been with your ex for 2years. I honestly would tell u that well y would u go back to something u left? u already know how it was with him and if u already know that he doesn't cut it then y would u go back to it. Life is learning and living. Which means don't be scared to move on.
2006-11-29 07:21:39 · answer #1 · answered by Pisces chik 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If guy A doesn't "do it for you" then why would you even thing about dating him again. if you are already seperated dont' go back. It is easy to fall back into our old habbits because they feel COMFORTABLE.
As far as guy B, I don't think you should compare him to guy A. He may be right for you and you don't realize it. Sometimes we get so stuck with the wrong person, that we don't realize the right person when they are right in front of us. It may seem akward and not feel right in the beginning. I don't think it would hurt to keep dating guy B. But, if you realize that you don't like him, then don't wait move on to guy C.
2006-12-01 03:41:33 · answer #2 · answered by Kimberly H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can love someone but can never work it out, what your looking for now is someone to have a future with and ups and downs with your ex is not the best for future plus dont compare B to A because you'll get no where, in a relationship you need to work things out even if you dont like it, theres no perfect relationship or love so i would say take time out and then start fresh again. yes love will be with you till the end but also a new man if you hold on to it.
2006-11-29 15:24:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
THERE IS A REASON WHY YOU ARE NOT HAPPY WITH GUY A AND ARE NOT TOGETHER EVEN AFTER 2 YEARS. GIVE GUY B A TRY AND IF IT DOESNT WORK OUT, GO LOOKING FOR GUY C. YOU CANT MAKE YOURSELF LOVE SOMEONE AND IT IS NOT FAIR TO EITHER OF YOU TO HANG ON TO A RELATIONSHIP THAT ISNT WORKING.
2006-11-29 15:22:21 · answer #4 · answered by katybeth212001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Risk it and move on to Mr. 'B'...
2006-11-29 15:20:37 · answer #5 · answered by Vikram M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not stay with a guy that I am not totally in love with, I say keep looking for you true love. Maybe you will find it in guy 'B'.
2006-11-29 15:20:12 · answer #6 · answered by boredgirl21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that either of them sound right. A sounds like old ground and B doesn't sound that good. Carry on being single and flirting..
2006-11-29 15:23:25 · answer #7 · answered by Warm Breeze 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
both or guy b n if it go bAD den back to a
2006-11-29 15:24:23 · answer #8 · answered by kyrah aka babygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is a reason why u and guy "A" broke up, so give guy "B" a chance
2006-11-29 15:19:28 · answer #9 · answered by sam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither,I'm not into guys.
2006-11-29 15:19:36 · answer #10 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋