what am i doing wrong?

Question

me and my girlfriend been together about a month, we fight alot but we aways get through it, the thing is it always seems ike i am apoligizing. I never get mad at her because i fear a break up, but she gets mad easily and seems like if we broke up it doesnt phase her. I fear that she doesnt realy want to be with me, am i wrong, and how to i stop fighting alot with her

Answer 1

I would question why you are so into this chick after just one month of dating and you fight all the time. Sounds to me like this ain't a love connection. Believe me if your fighting now, at this early stage, it will only get worse. Get out now while you still have some pride and dignity.

Answer 2

If you are fighting a lot and have only been together a month you should definitely break up. Why would you want to stay with someone you fight with all of the time.

Answer 3

You practically are the one making the relationship work. What are you afriad of? Are you afriad of what other people will say if you break up? Or have you been through other relationships that ended up the same way? You will need to look pass what others will say and your fears of breaking up and be truthfully to yourself and her. You guys will need to talk things over. And if truly she is looking for ways to break up with you, then you will have to let her go because you can't be happy.

Answer 4

well your story sounds very familiar, you know if they act like they dont care that usely means they dont care she may be trying to break it off with you but she wants you to be the one to do it, or maybe she just voices her opinion I'd ask her if she even wants to be with you dont be afraid of her breaking up with you their are plenty of fish in the sea and lots of them would be glad to be with you the 2 of you need to find a way to talk about things with out getting upset people that fight and get upset it's because they are insecure or hiding something this girl doesnt sound all that great for you. think about what you are getting out of this relationship and ask her what she is getting out it as well maybe that will help you find the answers you need

Answer 5

I say dump her while the relationship is still young. If everything you do pisses her off that not gonna change. She probably isn't that attracted to you, or maybe your just expecting a Lil to much this early in the relationship. If arguing is constant you need to get rid of her before you get even more attached to her.

Answer 6

First of all you should not even be with someone who does not take responsibility for their own actions. People who never appologize are hard hearted people who think the world should revolve around them, and who would turn their back on their own child if that child was not pleasing them. Dump this "woman", she does not deserve anyone who has a heart and who is kind.

Answer 7

You need to get over that. Being spineless all the time may just send her into the arms of a stronger more dominant man.

Answer 8

she isn't going to respect you if you give in anytime she pushes you. she knows you fear breaking up so she probably takes advantage of it. just be you if you disagree or she's wrong tell her, she will respect you for it. if she leaves because you don't kiss her butt then you don't need her.

Answer 9

You may want to let her know what you're feeling. She will be able to deny or confirm your feelings. In either case, are you ready for whatever she may say?

Answer 10

You sound like a really sweet guy, it sounds like the skank dont appreciate what she has in front of her.
Break up with her, you dont need her.