I cannot live without him.?

Question

When I know my bf is free, I always wanted to spend time with him. He was telling me that I am like a dog with a bone. I cannot help myself. I always feel better when I am around with my bf. What should I do?

Answer 1

Well fact is that you lived just fine thank you very much when he was not your boyfriend and that in reality you can now also. If your boyfriend is telling you that your like a dog chasing a bone then you should get the hint that he needs time to himself as you must also. It's unhealthy to spend ever minute with your significant other as both have to have some time alone. Besides what is going to happen if you or he ever tire of one and other and the relationship ends. You'd certainly have to live without him them and just as before you would be able to do so. Give him some breathing space and take some for yourself.

Answer 2

I remember those days, you'll get over it. Might take a few years though. lol Guys don't "love" like girls do. Since he said you were like a dog with a bone I can safely assume he doesn't feel the same way you do. I know its hard, but you really need to get a life. Find something you are interested in. Get a hobby. Love wains, looks fade, in the end you need to take care of you. You can't help the way you feel, once you get married and you are with him all the time, you'll grow out of it. (somewhat) I still like to be with my man, but I do have my own hobbies. I don't need to be with him all the time. But I remember how it was before....

Answer 3

That's good that you feel better when you are around him, but sometimes a couple needs time to themselves as well. I used to do that myself before getting married and I just found that I was smothering him because he had no time for himself. In this case, your bf is already hinting to you that he feels smothered. Perhaps you should consider giving him his space once in a while otherwise it could end up hurting the relationship in the longrun.

Answer 4

Consider finding someone who feels the same about you!

My wife and I choose to spend time with each other, when I get off work all I want to do is go home to be with her. And this is after 10 years of marriage. On the weekends we plan stuff to do together because we want to be together.

Do a relationship check and make sure he is at the same place you are!

Answer 5

Get a hobby. Start doing something solely for yourself. You need independance. Believe me, that feeling won't fade no matter what but you do need to be an individual. Guys don't like to be hounded like that. They prefer that you do things on your own. Your homework for this week? Spend a night with your girlfriends and away from him. Next week, spend 2 nights...one just at home and one out getting exercise. You will be a stronger and better person for it.

Answer 6

i was the same way with my man just wanting 2 be around him all the time but after a while i had to stop because it was making him mad so just back off just a little

Answer 7

You should back off a little and get your own life before you scare him away and have to live without him permanently.

Answer 8

haha.. thats kinda how i am
BUT i noticed i really need to stop
i dont want to bug him SO what i have done is i've found something fun i can do
lately i've been contacting some of my old friends i ask them if they want to go shopping or out to eat
something FUN & also something thAT will help me take my mind of him for awhile
GOOD LUCK

Answer 9

You are going to lose him if you don't give him space. You need to hang out with your girl friends and show him that you can survive with out him.

Answer 10

BACK OFF A LITTLE BIT HONEY. IT'S NATURAL TO FEEL BETTER WHEN YOU'RE WITH THE ONE YOU LOVE, BUT YOU SOUND JUST A WEE BIT OBSESSIVE. BE CAREFUL OR YOU'LL RUN HIM OFF. MOST MEN CAN'T HANDLE THAT CLINGY STUFF.