serious size question for females?

Question

When I am soft I am reall REALLY small. But when hard it is plenty big...not huge but not lacking. It way more than doubles in size and width. I get imbarrassed when its soft and try to cover. Do I really need to be worried? What would you think of it if I were your b/f? Would you laugh at me ? Would you care?

Answer 1

It really isn't the size that matters, especially if you are in a "normal" range when erect. Most (if not all) people understand that their are grow-ers and show-ers (men that are smaller, and get a lot bigger, vs men that start bigger, and then don't gain much size).

Additionally, most women I've talked to have said that they've found that lovers with smaller penises tend to be the best they have because they actually pay attention to them, treat them well, and get them off. So you might be a favorite in their books, over the guy who is 7 inches when soft.

-Essin' Em, hotmoviesforher.com

Answer 2

Someone who truly cared would not laugh regardless. As long as you know what you are doing size doesn't matter. One of best "experiences" I ever had the guy barely even had a p@n!s hard let alone soft. It's all about confidence and making her feel good. I'm going to apologize in advance for any/all the nasty responses you might get. Disregard them, you know what they say about opinions ;)

Answer 3

When its soft it doesn't matter, anyone who's been in a serious relationship would know that. Now if she was just giving you a hard time but knew that it wasn't really that size when performance time comes, then you need to let it go. But any woman who would seriously laugh at you isn't worth the effort.

Answer 4

Its not the size, its what you do with it! To answer your question, if I was your girlfriend I would not laugh at you. It is normal to be small when you are soft.

Answer 5

No, that's perfectly normal. Why worry? The first time anybody sees it, it's definitely going to be hard! After that nobody cares what it does on its days off.

Answer 6

don't be embarassed and don't worry the majority of men are not very big at all when 'soft'. just think of it this way a women seeing it 'soft' will be really amazed and happy at seeing it 'excited'. just make sure you please her and yourself and use it with confidence. and remember she isn't getting anything out of it when its 'soft' her main interest is when its 'excited'. (sorry about all the general terms, ppl will report if you use too many explicit words.)

Answer 7

I honestly love looking at my boyfriends soft penis because it's cute.
as for when hard...size doesn't always matter unless you're dating a hoe.
Most girls wouldn't laugh. plus the chances of the girl even seeing it before it's hard is unlikely unless you're a streaker!
most girls wouldn't even care, they care about how it feels, not how it looks!

Answer 8

All men are small when they're soft, dont sweat it!
why would we laugh? its not like its doing us any good when its soft, we worry about it when it doesnt increase when its hard! but if thats not your problem, then its probably not hers either. unless shes not exactly educated

Answer 9

Well i wouldnt laugh in ur face, but id have to see how big it was wen its hard before i could make a judgement, plus can u work it right? and do u c*m quick? if no and yes then ur out of luck with n e female really..

Answer 10

No don't be worried. I wouldn't care if u were my bf and I wouldn't laugh either. Size doesn't matter it's how u use it.