ok so i want an honest anwser?

Question

I don't get it i mean i love being single and all but I need a date for homecoming next month and don't want to wait till the last minute b/c the last 2 yrs i've done that and have ended up going with the same person each time..and i don't want to do that again..so my question is how do i talk to guys b/c i guess i need to get that going for me since i have had a person in the past walk up to my friends and tell them that they were prettier than me...while we were dating..I know im not butt-ugly but im not exactly the next celb. anyone have any good ways to get a date for homecoming?

what happens if im like really shy...i mean i wear really punk/rock- ish cothes one day..and like closet-poet the next....but i don't say much to anyone unless i know them well ..how do i get over that?

Answer 1

Been there done that, I hope you told the moron to take a hike, First you have to think about the other person you have gone with in the past they may be expecting you to go with them again and waiting for your call, however the way you approach men is the same way you approach your girl Friends always smile and say hi never hold a grudge, it takes time you work on it, little bits of conversation become long conversations, compliments are a mans down fall though, but don't batter him them though men like being noticed as well as women so if he's making a change in his appearance or if he has done something that has attracted your attention let him know but you must always shot from the hip always be honest timing is everything, and you should have many men as Friends when men see that, and then you start to show interest in one particular guy he'll feel honored that you choose him but most importantly and these two are the most important treat everyone equal the jock is no better than the nerd bill gates was a nerd,johnny dep is off the wall and more often than not the jock ends up working the 40 work weeks struggling to make ends meet and don't go buy looks or how cool a person is that would make you self centered I've gotten many black eyes defending people who get picked on, and I still cheer loud for the under dog as I will be cheering for you on your homecoming date, be true to yourself , never ever give a person a second chance to hurt you if your a good person to them and a good Friend then they only get one shot. So seek out the man you would like to take and ask him rejection sucks but we all deal with it, and if you do get rejected be sure to say hi and smile next time you see them, trust me it works, may not get you to the home coming but it just may get you a date with them later,that's how you build a circle of Friends, so I wish you the best time at your home coming and that it all works out well for you. P.S. how would you feel if you were the second or third lady to be asked by a man remeber that when asking the man make sure that they are not aware of other men you have asked. best wishes,

Answer 2

So what's the big deal about going with the same person? The real question is, did you enjoy those past 2 years homecoming?
Ok, so ya wanna try someone different. But you may regret it.
It's not worth ruining an evening.
The ONLY way is to ASK someone of your own choosing. However, be prepared to be turned out. Now you can understand how a guy feels most of the time. ;)

Answer 3

How about a Jewish answer... properly seed isn't to wasted. For causes of procreation yet besides it as a launch will be considered as an enabler. with the point to be blunt to save issues bottled up keeps the pastime interior of and motivates to act out moves. i'm hoping you get what i'm getting at. as an party it would want to postpone moves that would ensue less than G-d's will and organic situation both or not that is marriage, etc... look deeper into what i'm putting forward in case you do not get it refill.

Answer 4

Guys will say yes, just ask out guys you like. Not many sane men will turn down a date with a nice girl. Looks are what initially attracts a guy to a girl but its not what makes them like you. If guys dis you simply because your not as cute as your friends then he's probably not worth your time anyway. Good Luck!

Answer 5

be yourself and ask someone, and if the guys at school don't interest you then ask some out outside of school. you're probably gorgeous and you're being modest. be secure in your personality as well looks aren't everything and doesn't make a whole package. you know what you want so go get it. guys like to be asked on dates just as much as women do, and an assertive woman can be a great turn on and an ego booster. you just have to take matter into your own hands. don't worry and stress yourself but get started now. go on girl, and i bet you'll do just fine.

Answer 6

i tend to agree with going with friends, male or female.

however, if you still want a regular date, look around at all the guys who never have a date because they are too shy to ask.

there are a lot of guys out there who would love a date--look around and pick one.

he will be grateful forever.

Answer 7

I always just told myself that I would go with the first person that asked me. Smile when you see a cute guy, be fun and bubbly and sweet! You'll get asked!

Answer 8

okay so i have this problem as well but i think you should just go staight up to the guy you like and just ask him the worst he can do is say no

Answer 9

First, start dressing in ways that make you feel sexy/confident/beautiful all in one. That will raise you r self esteem. Just be you, though!!

Answer 10

go with a good friend....it's way more fun than a date who will prob ditch you for his buddies.. that happened to my friend and it ruined her entire night....or just go with a group of girls....its only homecoming, just go and have fun!