this guy says that he really likes me,hes always complimenting me and saying how good looking i am etc.we have kissed and i have stayed back at his place 4 times.
i aint gone any further with him even tho he has tried to sexually.i do tease him a bit tho.we only see eachother casually.we are not dating.
he knows that ive just come out of a serious 6 year relationship with my fiance 8 months ago and that i used to live my ex.he doesnt know why we split tho.my ex has moved away.he did know him but they were never friends.
when i was with him last,he asked about my ex.i told him it was over and that i aint spoken to him for months.
why hasnt he asked me out on a date?
is he not sure whether im ready cause of my ex?
does he think i dont really like him cause i just tease him?
2006-11-29 06:49:17 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He doesn't want to date you, he's hoping that your horny enough just to have sex with him, he wants to be your sexually rebound guy.
2006-11-29 06:53:03 · answer #1 · answered by captianpr 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not trying to sound harsh, but in my opinion...
have you two spoken about what your relationship is? I mean is this something that you want to go further...maybe turn into another relationship, or is it just for fun? If its just for fun then maybe he sees you as just a friend with benefits. And as far as the teasing thing, all girls do it, but be careful, sometimes if you tease hard enough or long enough you may get more than you asked for. That's how allot of girls end up getting raped! Be careful, and be smart!!
2006-11-29 14:55:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he might feel that he's been used as a rebound because your teasing him and not being serious or he enjoy's your company but doesn't want to go further just in case you go back with your ex or get to know each other abit more and be open about your ex and you so he understand and that'll give him confident to ask you out or and this is the last one put him on the spot and ask he what he thinks of you!
2006-11-29 15:01:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, sounds like he is not taking you seriously. You have kissed and gone to his place without ever having been asked out by him? Maybe he is thinking of you just as a booty call.
If he's attracted to you, maybe he thinks you will reject him if he actually tries to have a relationship. You should be up-front and honest about how you feel and tell him directly: It's over between you and your ex, you are ready to meet someone new, and you'd like to start dating. Why don't you ask HIM on a date? "I'd like to spend time getting to know each other; why don't we have dinner together?"
Don't let this guy just use you for sex. Stick to your standards. If he is not willing to date but keeps pressuring you for sex, best to steer clear.
2006-11-29 14:53:20 · answer #4 · answered by secondchild02 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he is not sure where you stand as far as the teasing goes or he is only interested in you sexually.
If you can joke with him try saying something about him maybe having a chance if he actually asked you out already.
2006-11-29 14:54:56 · answer #5 · answered by Suesan W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could think that you need time to get over your last relationship. Why don't you ask him out on a date? That would let him know that you are interested and maybe take the pressure off of him.
2006-11-29 14:56:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok... first of all... I wanna ask you to contact me... lol.
Seriousl y... (ok.. yea I was serious with that too.. I"m so tired of being alone)....
I came to WV to be with a girl.. and she had dated this guy from another state online.....
That was NOT why she left me.. it was my stupid stuff... won't get into details... but so you know..
My own stupid insecurities got in the way... and
did ruin the best thing that I had in my life...
what I'm sahing is this..
I wish you guys the best...
but.... maybe he has a right to be scared a bit.. I hope he don't.. and hope you all laugh at my stuff..
anyways.. hugs you both..
night baby.
2006-11-29 14:53:55 · answer #7 · answered by Ken 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He hasn't asked you out on a date because he's getting pretty much everything he wants without asking you out!! Don't overanalyze his thought process -- he's not interested in dating you, or he would have asked you out already. Men do what they want, bottom line.
Drop him before you become the booty call girl.
2006-11-29 14:53:36 · answer #8 · answered by jael_hk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that he thinks that you just want to be friends, or maybe he is the one who only wants to be friends, and now and then get some, i think that if you are sure that you like him and are willing to have a relationship with him even if is not a very serious one you should show it to him, if not then trace the line
2006-11-29 14:53:32 · answer #9 · answered by yennyfer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he may have wanted a fling. Good for you waiting. See if it's right first by getting to know him.
2006-11-29 14:52:57 · answer #10 · answered by ndngrlz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only you can decide i cant advise you one way or another but something is holding him maybe your teasing is and he might be a sensitive little lad
2006-11-29 14:57:07 · answer #11 · answered by srracvuee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋