So, my friend is dating this guy for like three years now. When they are in bed together she says that he just lays there and masturbate each time. If she try to kiss him or caress him he masterbates. She's very attractive, she has a nice body in case you're wondering. She says that he masturbates at least 4 times per day. What's the problem?
2006-11-29 06:43:50 · 12 answers · asked by jolie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is going to ruin their relationship because she's looking for someone to please her.
2006-11-29 06:50:00 · update #1
Its is normal for guys to self gratify, but not normal to do so repeatedly in place of sex with a live person.
2006-11-29 06:46:58 · answer #1 · answered by Tippy's Mom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I haven't the foggiest idea why he would do this. Perhaps he is having a problem getting prepared for her and so must do this before they make love. All she needs to do is ask if he is having a problem with erectile difficulties or what the reason is. If she is that concerned however she should communicate with him her feelings and how this makes her feel.
2006-11-29 06:48:41 · answer #2 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to most, it may be normal, but to those who want to take it a step further it isn't.
if it were me in the bed with a beautiful woman, i wouldn't even be able to masturbate, cause i'd be busy hit the breaks of that.
what she have is a boy, but what she wants is a man.
then agian it could be her fault. he probably wants it a way she doesn't know how to give it.
it is always good to experiment in a relationship. that's what they need to be doing.
2006-11-29 06:49:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK that guy has a serious problem. What kind of guy will masturbate when he has a beautiful girl like you said. I guess he is afraid of something like he don't know how to please a women or it may be because of his size or something. I hope that helped
2006-11-29 07:43:12 · answer #4 · answered by Bandit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should tell him to do that by himself and not when she's there. If he refused to be a fair participant in bed then he'll likely be selfish in other areas of their relationship, and therefore she should find someone else.
2006-11-29 06:47:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a guy, NO that is NOT normal.To me that is for when your going through a dry spell or she just isnt around at the time.Yes we do it when your not around even in a relationship where your giving it to us 2-3x daily.Like I said you just wern't around.
2006-11-29 06:57:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's weird, good looking woman in bed with me we're having sex, I'm not masturbating! Tell her to find another bf.
2006-11-29 06:50:32 · answer #7 · answered by captianpr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Freaky. She needs to find a normal guy who will be happy to choose her first and use his own hand as a last resort. Freaky.
2006-11-29 06:47:53 · answer #8 · answered by seattlego 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is sexy to incorporate masturbation with your lover, with intercourse as well and oral.
this sounds kind of strange, maybe he cant maintain an erection with just sex.
2006-11-29 06:47:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he likes it a particular way maybe... ask her to talk it out and tell him that she is not comfortable with him just masterbating..... ask him if thr is sumthing she can do so he will come...weirdo
2006-11-29 06:48:05 · answer #10 · answered by dd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋