My man has never been jealous with me, which is a great thing because i am not jealous neither. But lately (after he proposed to me) he has been asking questions like : whos going with you or what was you doing when you didnt pick up the phone? and he expects an explanation, which aggravates me because im VERY FAITHFUL. is this jealousy? i thought he was not jealous! Is he going to get jealous after we marry??
2006-11-29 06:35:58 · 5 answers · asked by JULIA 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no not all men are jealious but most men are
2006-11-29 06:38:59 · answer #1 · answered by Gossip Gurl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, not all men are jealous. Just insecure ones or ones that have reason to worry about faithful significant other.
You have an obsessive jealous man. You need to settle it right now because it will only get worse. Really make an issue over it now before it's too late. NOTE: I did not say throw a fit, get mad, have a huge argument.
I said, get it settled now; meaning you really need to let him know this could be really bad for the relationship later. If he is insecure, he needs to get straightened out, If your doing something or done something to make him feel insecure, he needs to get straightened out. yadda yadda yadda you get the drift.
2006-11-29 06:44:07 · answer #2 · answered by Wondrin Dude 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not jealousy. he was just wondering what you were up tot hat was so important thet you could pick up! my bf and i do it to eachother al lthe time. yeah we are jeouls but i consider jealously liek some bibo girl bouncing in asking to say hi to my bf... that made me jealous. but i knwo i dont have anythign to wirry abotu cause he knew if he ever did anythign then its over! and plus she not his type and has her own bf anyways...she just immature...anyways i consider that t be jealousy. mainly feeling uncomfortable when the opposite sex is talkign toy ou lied one even tough its not flirting or anything.. sometimes i get liek that and he is the same sometimes too. but it doenst cause us that many problems since both of us are so faithful to eachother. and there is alot of trust.
congrat on gettign married!! im sure he was just wondering what you were up to, maybe tryign to strike up a conversation in some way. dont get to upset if he asks you questions liek this otherwise that could cause problems. if you ever question him being jeaouls or not the best thing to to is just sit down and talk things out! =) why he feels that wa, what you both can do, ect, ect...
i dont know if he wil be jealous hen you get married though!. he shoudlnt be since you will be his wife. =)
good luck
just dont get too heated abotu things liek that, its not worth it =) ask him if he;s jealous about something or someone if he keeps asking why you didnt pick up the pho ne and what not.
2006-11-29 06:43:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Comming from a guy YES! we all get a little jealous once and a while. You Women need to look at it this way if he didn't get at least a little jealous maybe he dosen't REALLY care for you.
2006-11-29 06:45:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well all men get jealous sometimes like my boyfriend...but u no dat saying 'i don't see no ring on my finger' we now u do n now he d0es so here comes da jealousy.Jealousy is just another way of showin how much he loves u
2006-11-29 06:41:34 · answer #5 · answered by kyrah aka babygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋