I was deeply involve with a woman for 2 of the greatest years of my life. Then BAMM like a ton of bricks she just blows me off to the curb like a trash bag with no reason what so ever and told me it was any thing that did and that I was agreat man and so on. The passion was always there and great love making even up to the night before she said it was the best ever. The last time we talked was 3 weeks ago for coffee when she left she state we are not over yet. 3 monhts of lonliness and worry I've tried to date and get out but I can't stop loving her what does a guy do? Wait or not move on (what)
2006-11-29 06:21:45 · 7 answers · asked by dano 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It happened to me after 19 years of marriage. Time will be the only thing that will help you heal.
2006-11-29 06:33:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
PPPLLEEEASSSEEE move on!
I like this guy right now who dated this girl for about a year and a half. The last half was nothing but problems and they've been broken up for over a month now. He thought they were soul mates and he's STILL not over it. He says he hates her, but still loves her at the same time.
My point is, you should move on, because there might be someone out there waiting for you. I'm a great girl, but this guy may never get to experience it because he wont move on from his past (destructive) relationship.
2006-11-29 14:33:02 · answer #2 · answered by Miz D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
two years is a long time to invest in relationship.
for her to leave without any kind of explanation, then say that it's not over yet.
Selfish.
You are not going to move on unless you find out where she stands. If there is even the slightest possibility that the two of you will get back together , you will continue to hang on to that. Human nature.
However, it seems that it is over, for whatever reason.
don't worry about dating, just have some fun with your friends for a while. They probably miss you.
I hpe that one way or the other you get your answers.
good luck!
2006-11-29 14:30:12 · answer #3 · answered by lil' angel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its weird cause i am pretty much going through the same thing. except with a guy. we dated for 2 and a half years. and i thought everything was so amazing. i loved him more than anything in the world. and he loved me too. the day after thanksgiving he breaks up with me. i am in shock and in pain. its the worst pain in the world. he said it was nothing i did. he just doesnt want a serious relationship. he was talking to some girl behind my back for a week. and made out with her the night we broke up. its very hard to go through this. especially being with somone for that long. just keep your head up. i dont know where ill be in 3 months from now. prolly still missing him. but she will realize what she had was good with you. and if she doesnt it just wasnt meant to be. and im trying to accept that fact for me too. i'm sorry your going through this pain. its extremely hard. i wish you the best of luck!
2006-11-29 14:32:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on, she iis just messing with you. Dont waste your time. Their are better women out there, that wont just toss you with that tired ol lame excuse. Woman just say that to be nice and not seem like the bad one
2006-11-29 14:25:28 · answer #5 · answered by ReRe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems like something is going on with her, if she's says its not over yet...I'd call her ask her to explain that. If she's still wants it to be over, then move on.
2006-11-29 14:27:04 · answer #6 · answered by Boots4ACowgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time heals all wounds! You will move on in due time and not a second before that.
2006-11-29 14:25:29 · answer #7 · answered by Phenomenal Woman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋