consider myself to be loyal trustworthy, kind and honest do i have to be devious and selfish and manipulate women to get them to go out wth me?
2006-11-29 06:21:10 · 7 answers · asked by paul265116 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the worst thing is everbody keps telling me cinfidence is the key wchcih hurts my confidence even more ! and i do go out all the time - i get fed up with going out lol
2006-11-29 06:41:43 · update #1
Hello from New Zealand:)
Let nature take its course. Perhaps you are trying to hard. There is no time or age limit on when Mr or Mrs right appears in your life. You know the saying...You never know what is around the corner! You can give yourself a helping hand...mix with people with your own set of morals and interests...be adventurous and do things you have never done before..travelling to interesting places( NOT the Costa Brava etc. ) Go off the beaten path. Your options are limited only by yourself. Let yourself become FREE!
All the best ! Kind regards.Why would you want, and in fact it would be impossible to be to be friends(?) with anyone with those traits you hate!! Don't sell yourself short my friend. God Bless
2006-11-29 06:40:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, don't turn that way. I have a lot of guy friends and they always start to like me after a long friendship. I hate it but if they made it clear to me that they liked me in the begining then things would have been different. I don't know why I'm like that. Some people say that the best relationship starts off as being friends first but I've always wanted my friends to stay just friends and the guys I'm interested in make it clear that he is interested in me from the start. Just make it obvious that your interested in the girl rather than just friends. Good luck.
2006-11-29 06:29:10 · answer #2 · answered by basmusiq 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just need to go out more often. Everyone is attractive to someone else. Just don't stay at home playing video games or working all day and then say you have no girlfriend. GO OUT! Go to bars. Meet people. And most importanty- BE CONFIDENT!!! WOmen love that. Best of luck :-)
2006-11-29 06:23:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women tend to like "bad boys". Guys who don't call everyday, guys who have or seem to have a life outside of them. Women are not looking for pointdexter they are looking for a man!
Best thing you can do is listen to the Tom Leykis show, or visit his website at www.blowmeuptom.com sounds like you need some Leykis 101 lessons.
2006-11-29 06:26:31 · answer #4 · answered by marisanj 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is true, you need to get out more and talk . If you are too shy.... talk to guys, become part of the group at least for a while... and they will introduce you their girl friends...
Believe me, confidence is a HUGE plus with women.
2006-11-29 06:38:08 · answer #5 · answered by resiste_lfc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have never had a g/f and I am 33. I am still a virgin. Can't help, but I can relate.
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2006-11-29 06:37:22 · answer #6 · answered by NJboy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at a guess... r u ugly??
2006-11-29 06:28:41 · answer #7 · answered by purple_ronnie_always 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋