Will this ever go anywhere or should I move on?

Question

Help me to read his mind?
We have been "just good friends" for 6 months but have known each other for 6 yrs. The attraction is DEFINATELY there. However e both divorced last yr so have taken things very slowly, agreeing that we need a friend more than relationship at the mo. This friendship was phonecalls/texts only until 3 wks ago when I became extremly ill, he visited me lots,brought flowers, cards, even rang my mum every day to find out how I was. I played it sool as I didn't want to scare him off. Last night we texted about ice skating. It went like this. Me"I'd love 2 go will you come with me?I don't mind looking a fool in front of you" him, " Mini skirts r good for beginners" Me,"U cheeky sod! Is that a yes?" Him, "Yes and I can cook!" Me, " Ok gr8! When?" Now I've heard NOTHING!! I don't want to pester him, I'm waiting for reply, but until I get one, I'd like to have an insight into what he's thinking!! help please!

Answer 1

i see a "romance" movie in this situation. i see that there is something there and i dont wanna say move on because i bet there is a chance for you to, but you have to understand you and him both have gone through a divorce and maybe he isnt ready to do that again and really has strong feelings for you but is afraid that the same thing will happen again, i would say give another month or 2 and if "still friends" then i would say something about if the relationship is going anywhere because you dont wanna waste your life with a "good friend" when u could be gettn back up on your feet.

Answer 2

Sounds like he's still playing the field but wants to keep you around and interested in case he decides he wants to settle down. Being as the divorce was just last year I think a serious relationship is the last thing on his mind. Guys show you how they feel at that moment...not 24/7 so he might have just felt that way because of all the qt you guys spent while you were ill. Relax, take it slow and play the field. You don't want him to feel smothered. You want him to know others are also interested and you as well haven't made up your mind. Hope this helps

Answer 3

Continue to allow space for you both have been divorced for a very little amount of time.

In a time when true friends are a rare find, appreciate that in him for now.....should something more develop, it will take time.....for only he knows the hurt and regroup that has had to be from that circumstance......but it is just second nature to feel that you need to keep at a safe distance the next person you become close to - for whatever reason.

Simply be there for him. If you see that your feelings continue to grow for him, before it gets too far, share that with him so that he does not feel cornered or threatened by your feelings.

Best wishes to you both!

Answer 4

Just call him back and ask him when he wants to go ice skating. He probably thought the message ended at, "OK gr8!" and didn't see the, "when" (for whatever the reason). Right now, he's probably keeping his mind on his job and about the date later, tonight. Besides, why would he ask you out then just drop the whole matter and the date's off? Just call.

Answer 5

Being Air tension, my husband and that i've got moved many cases, in specific circumstances to remote places around the international. i'm initially from Indiana. i've got moved 8 distinctive cases, at the same time with places the two in US and outdoors US.

Answer 6

Call him. If you like him, take a chance... and have in mind a TIME you'd like to go ice skating. Make sure it's likely a time he can go. Hints and mystery and wondering can be fun, but don't make for progress! There's nothing wrong with a girl calling a guy, and if he turns you down, YOU KNOW to move on.

Answer 7

Just call him. Skip the text messages a minute. Sometimes, text messages don't always go through. Maybe he didn't get your text and could be waiting for you to call him!!!! Girl, don't mess around and miss your man!

Answer 8

Did you have a date to go skating set, or was it just chatter? I think the next message should be "I'm going skating Saturday at 7pm- are you coming?" and take your cue from his answer.

Answer 9

I think you know the answer to this question; you just don't want to admit it. You should move on, it's not going anywhere. He's just not that interested in you. Find a guy who is.

Answer 10

I am consulting my Crystal ball, I will let you know your future as soon as it will tell me. Till then try singing, "Que sera, sera,"call him, and ask him for an answer, what do you have to loose? Good luck.