WHY CAN'T I do it?

Question

I SOMETIMES WONDER WHAT ALL OF YOU PEOPL DO ON YOUR SPARE TIME. I POSTED A QUESTION AND EVERYONE TOLD ME ANSWERS THAT I DID NOT WANT I. I HAVE MONNEY AND BOTH OUR PARENTS ARE OK WITH IT BUT THEY SAY I AM STILL TO YOUNG TO GRT MARRIED

Answer 1

if you dont understand why people say your too young maybe you are?

Answer 2

I didn't see the original question, so it's hard to really make an answer here. Sounds like your parents feel like you're too young to get married.

Ok, that part first. Your parents are doing that they think is best for you. Maybe they feel they got married to young.. or maybe they just want you to wait awhile to make sure it's what's right for you. Either way, if you're 18, and your significant other is 18, it's your choice, not theirs. Now, remember, there is fallout to deal with, if you get married and they don't approve of it. But in the end, it is your decision.

Another part I'd like to say something about though is your message here. You say, and I quote "I posted a question, and everyone told me answers that I did not want".
People are not going to answer questions the way you want them too. If you want someone to answer something specific, then you need to be specific in your questions. If you just don't like what they have to say, I don't think anyone's going to apologize. They have a right to their opinion, since you asked the question.

I wish you luck with your dilemma. At a minimum, remember, there's no harm in waiting longer to be married. If you love your significant other, waiting a few months, or a year, shouldn't damage your relationship in a negative way...in fact, waiting may strenghthen it.

Answer 3

you can get married but you haven't enjoyed your life. You don't know what it's liek to take a trip to the bahamas or germany and party till you can' t no more and bone as much chicks as you can until your winer falls off. Don't get married until you're done having fun. Getting married sucks when you wish you were single. Think about it- getting married is not like hooking up wiht a BF orGF. You can't just break up after an argument. Good luckyto you and may god bless.

Answer 4

Assuming your over 18: Dont worry about what other people say. You only have to live with yourself and the decisions you make. So make a good thoughtful decision and live by it. Think it over then act. You will never be able to please everyone. Parents are just trying to protect you. Its a tough life out there but if you think your ready then jump. Good luck.

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Answer 5

oh that's good that you have money (didn't know that now i do) but i still think you should wait if you cant wait until 20 then at least wait another year to see how things work out cause i want the best for everyone i hate to see people living miserable with each other but i really wish you the best and plus this is just my opinion but if your hart is saying yes then go with your hart don't pay attention with what the other people said

good luck in life i wish you the best

Answer 6

If it is your money, then you have nothing to lose by going against your parents.

Only you can decide when you are ready to get married. The only thing you have not stated is how old you really are.

I think your parents are trying to ensure you will be okay and are emotionally ready as well.

But if they are both okay with it, then the statement is but a caution to think it over and make sure you are truly ready.

Answer 7

sometimes parents try and put they selves in your shoes,like you are following they fotsteps,and most dont want they children to get caught up,struggling and all that stuff...and the other half sometimes think it's a money issue with the females,and it's not the case all the time...but they have to respect ones opinion at times i am pretty sure they dont want you to go behind their back and just do it,regardless of what they say...really sit down and talk to them and be as honest as you can be,...let them know you are capable...all depends on how old you are?i dont know...but be truthful....

Answer 8

If you're afraid of the answers don't ask the question. I don't know if you're too young to get married, but that right there pretty much says you're not mature enough.

Answer 9

If you really feel that you are ready, then you should get married. Your parents will come around eventually and if they don't, you don't need that kind of negativity in your life anyway.

Answer 10

LLOK IF YOU WANT TO GET MARRIED THEN DO IT BUT WHEN IT FALLS APART DONT COME CRYING TO US AGIAN ABOUT SO YOU WERE RIGHT NOW WHAT DO I DO. YOU OBVIOUSLY DIDNT WANT THE ANSWERS YOU GOT OR YOU WOULDNT BE COMLAINING AND YOU OBVIOUSLY WONT LISTEN TO REASON SO JUST GO DO IT ALREADY. AND BY YOU BOTH HAVE MONEY I HOPE YOU DONT MEAN MOMMY AND DADDIES MONEY B.C IT WONT BE THERE ANY MORE.

Answer 11

How old are you? If your younger than 30 wait until your 30. it takes men longer to grow up.