I have never cheated on my mate.Yet he constantly accuses me of cheating on him.interrogates me every night after i come home from work wanting to know if any man has talked to me.thinks if some man so much said hi to me that either i want this man or this man wants me.Does not want me talking to any man outside of our marriage.accuses me of wanting his friends if his friends talk to me or i talk to them in our home with him sitting right here.
2006-11-29 06:07:44 · 9 answers · asked by noga 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have a saying that I live by.. "He who cries the loudest is usually the guilty!"
I have found this to be true! Anytime I was accused of cheating or something to that effect (btw..i have NEVER cheated) after the fact I found out they were guilty of it. So I live by that saying!
2006-11-29 06:13:04 · answer #1 · answered by Get_R_Done_n_Dallas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When a guy constantly accuses you of cheating most often it is him that is having the affair / cheating. He figures if he's doingit you might be. I got so tired of my guy accusing me of cheating, I finally did cheat on him. If he wasnt going to stop accusing me of cheating (No matter how manytimes I said I was not) I figured I might as well have the fun if im being accused of it anyway
2006-11-29 06:30:02 · answer #2 · answered by cat00415 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like it's time for him to go.....If he accuses than he is the guilty party. You will never be able to live happily with a man who wants that much control over you. If he can't trust you than he doesn't love you.
2006-11-29 06:11:03 · answer #3 · answered by todayillsee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its is just an over-jealous man. my bf is the same way not as bad about his friends tho but he thinks i want one of them. i personally don 't believe in cheating on some1 if u wanna b with some1 else then leave who your with and b with them, but anywho yeah he was always overjealous when i mentioned i talked to some guy, and i have more guy friends than girls because im a tomboy, i hate girls no offense but i think there stupid. tell him you dont like it and you would never cheat on him, he needs to calm down or just do it back to him until he snaps nad asks why u think that and tell him it hurts when some1 is always accusing u of doing something you wouldnt. my bf dont do it nemore cuz i kept doing it to him. im telling ya it works.
2006-11-29 06:15:59 · answer #4 · answered by ~*cRaCkNeSs*~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes possesive for one. Secondly most of the time when people accuse you of things that you havent done, then they are the guilty ones. If hes that damn possesive then you need to divorce him, but try talking to him first and explaining how this is confusing you. Also ask him why he doesnt trust you.
2006-11-29 06:12:17 · answer #5 · answered by aidea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they accuse you.. 9 times out of 10 THEY are the ones CHEATING!!!!!!
2006-11-29 06:09:30 · answer #6 · answered by stress77mulah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
id say hes just insecure and extremely protecive because maybe he has been hurt in the past because his mate cheated on him and he doesnt want it to happen again.
2006-11-29 06:10:38 · answer #7 · answered by poser998 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a jealous and insecure person.
2006-11-29 06:10:47 · answer #8 · answered by Jerry Garcia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think maybe he has an hidden reason
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2006-11-29 06:11:30 · answer #9 · answered by john doe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋