I don’t know why, its been about 4-5 months since we last got back together and broke up again - I’ve decided never to get back with him again, and anyhow I don’t stand a chance, However, I want to move on. I am not being able to find someone why makes me want to be with them and commit all over again!!
Please advice, I want a relationship, but I am un-able to find anyone who really interests me, and so I am just not into it right now - what should I do??
Advice, plz
2006-11-29 06:05:24 · 21 answers · asked by Franky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What u r going through right now is perfectly naturale. The thing is it is all in your head. mabey u need to take a break to organize your toughts and all. u can't forget you x, and u r comparing everyone to him. if u broke up with him, it's because u 2 just don't click, so find someone that u think will make u happy, not just because u need to move on!
hope u sort things out!
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2006-11-29 06:17:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your not into it than it won't happen. Then again have you ever heard of the idea that if you stop looking it will happen. I suggest going out with friends and having a good time. Even dating casually is in good standing as friends. You might just need friends and not relationships at this point. Getting over your X takes time and you have that luxury..... What's the rush! Have Fun and be yourself. Eventually you will bump into a catch and along that journey you will meet plenty of interesting people that can give you insight.
2006-11-29 14:12:20 · answer #2 · answered by Sparks 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Me and my boyfriend split up a few months ago too and even though it's hard it is not good to just jump right into a new relationship. I have been on some dates but no one that seems right. You have to take this time to do things for yourself and clear your head. The weird thing is a guy that is right for you always comes around when your not looking for it.
2006-11-29 14:10:23 · answer #3 · answered by Venus 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would be patient until you find the right person. I know that's not what you wanted to hear, but just think if you are patient and wait it out and then you find the right person don't you think it was worth it? Sometimes good things come to those who wait. In the meantime work on yourself. Do things you normally wouldn't do. Have fun being singel right now.
2006-11-29 14:14:02 · answer #4 · answered by The girl next door 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do not look for it. Let it come to you. The more you look the harder it will be to find a man. He will come when you least expect it. Trust me.
Also, give your self some time to heal. You shouldn't be jumping into any realtionships right now hun. Give your self a time off. Relax. See about you and what you need before you go satisfying someone else.
2006-11-29 14:10:09 · answer #5 · answered by Osunwole Adeoyin 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't be in a rush - you'll find that so long as you're LOOKING - that person will simply evade you. Stop looking - enjoy yourself with friends and family - get out there and let your personality shine. The right person will be drawn to your self confidence and joy of life once you let yourself relax and not care.
You realize - you don't have to commit - you are allowed to play....
2006-11-29 14:09:28 · answer #6 · answered by JODI P 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's still too soon......stop looking and be on your own. 4-5 months isn't a sufficient amount of time to be by yourself after a breakup....I was alone for 5 years before I found the right person....your heart will let you know when the time is right.
2006-11-29 14:18:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well...vicc... u might not like my answer but the first problem is that you are not over him u can tell by how you right (find things you didn't like about him eventually u wont like him anymore)
second you r con paring every men 2 him ur using him as your point of reference (etc. his better then him ,his worst etc.etc.etc)
im not sure how old you r look at my profile if were r around the same age hit me up ill give u more advice
2006-11-29 14:14:10 · answer #8 · answered by Dj PAPAONE 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't look for love, it finds you. When you least exptect it, and in the least likely place. When the right person comes along, you'll know. Don't think you have to be in a relationship in order to feel complete. Learn to love yourself first, and when you learn that, you'll see that sometimes its better to be alone than in bad company.
2006-11-29 14:12:58 · answer #9 · answered by Mimitheone O 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow I hope I dont insult you but give it a rest already. Why are you so quick to want another relationship? Are you not happy with yourself. Go find yourself and true love will come to you. You have been making mistakes. Search true love, self love, the ego and you will understand where i am coming from.
2006-11-29 14:10:17 · answer #10 · answered by prettysexycalves 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋