do they go for personality or looks, both? What do they have to have to attract?
2006-11-29 06:01:15 · 16 answers · asked by EXPO 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Depends on how old a female you are talking about. When they are immature, they are all materialistic and shallow. Looks and money is what attracts them. When they grow up and realize money does not buy happiness then they look for a guy with a good personality that makes them laugh, but they can't be a total bum or anything. When the sex wains and the looks fade....you have to have someone that you can talk to and that you have something in common with. You have to be going in the same direction. When you stop looking for someone...they have a tendancy to find you. I don't know why that is. Or when you think you found someone, then someone else starts flirting with you. Happens all the time. Take your time, you have your whole life ahead of you.
2006-11-29 06:12:19 · answer #1 · answered by Becky F 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sense of humor, good listener and articulate themselves, responsible in their choices, and looks arent the only thing...to tell you the truth, I am not really attracted to the Backstreet Boy look, I like a big guy, tall and big, who isnt afraid to get his hands dirty. Grease monkeys are hot!!!
2006-11-29 14:06:07 · answer #2 · answered by rufnready 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The smart ones also check your credit rating, home, education,
job, cars, credit cards, bank accounts, prior wives & children, family
background and on and on and on...
Looks and Personality do not make for a good happy long term relationship....They are mostly one night stand issues...
2006-11-29 14:05:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
really both. Looks are important and personality is key, you have to be a sweet person and lovable. ..but not too easy, it is more of a balancing act...but of course it depends on the girl
2006-11-29 14:05:36 · answer #4 · answered by All Of the Above 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was told they go with the look, followed by their personality and finally, if they are financially secured. Of course, everyone is different.
2006-11-29 14:13:15 · answer #5 · answered by Inquirer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People say that looks don't matter but the truth is that it does. I'll say it looks do matter but personality also counts allot too. They both go equaly in my book.
2006-11-29 14:04:22 · answer #6 · answered by Only1 Love 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I defentley looking for a dam good person that can hold a conversation and confident as well as takes care of himself.
2006-11-29 14:04:19 · answer #7 · answered by D'oh! 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I go for a caring heart, nice personality, good hygiene, someone willing to talk things through.
2006-11-29 14:13:52 · answer #8 · answered by postcardtrader 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they have 2 hav grate personalitys and can make them laugh but still is serious sometimes (of course they hav 2 look good) agirl just wants someone 2 listen 2 them
2006-11-29 14:04:14 · answer #9 · answered by Catie Batie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Character, personality, sense of humor, looks yeah as far as good hygiene, and health-takes care of himself
2006-11-29 14:03:50 · answer #10 · answered by Boots4ACowgirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋