he says he is window shopping & doing nothing wrong,hes in his late 40s
2006-11-29 05:56:05 · 16 answers · asked by jay liz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just let him do it - I used to rant at my husband and it made him worse. Accept it and they soon get bored with it xxxx
2006-11-29 05:59:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He`s being an inconsiderate and insensitive pig! It doesn`t do much for your ego or self esteem with him doing this does it? It must make you feel inadequate, insecure and make you fed up.Tell him to PACK IT IN, at least when you`re in his company. If he wants to ogle women/look at porn when you`re not with him that`s up to him, but he could be discreet. To say he`s window shopping is an insult. I go window shopping and if I see something I like I wish I could have it! If I was you I`d tell him that if he doesn`t stop it, he`ll be celebrating his 50th birthday on his own. PS And what kind of girls does he look at? Ones that are half his age, who wouldn`t give HIM a second glance? Ones who would consider him a dirty old man, or a pervert. If he thinks that by doing this he isn`t jeopardising your relationship he`s a complete idiot and a silly old fool. Sorry to go on, but blokes like this make me wanna cringe!
2006-11-29 11:04:24 · answer #2 · answered by The BudMiester 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK,not sure what i'd do about the porn thing, talking about it might help. as for looking at other women out and about i cant see a problem as long as he doesnt touch. you have to be comfortable enough with yourself that he is only looking. in fact i would be worried if a guy didnt look when a pretty girl walked past, i'd thinkthey were maybe hiding somethingor paranoid tha you might get suspicous.Its all about the trust baby!!
2006-11-29 06:01:24 · answer #3 · answered by whatsthedealwivguys 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest I don't see any harm in looking. If it bothers you then maybe you should talk about it. If he's not trying to hide the fact he's doing it????
My partner is a photographer and he likes painting and looks for images on the internet. Don't worry.... but as I said if it bothers you he may not stop anyway. Lots of men AND women look...it's curiosity and human nature!
2006-11-29 06:02:32 · answer #4 · answered by minitheminx65 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're satisfied with the amount of attention he's paying you, might be best just to leave him to it, or even start watching them with him. If you're not getting any from him though, give him an ultimatum - it's either the porn or you that goes. Remind him that porn programs won't cook his dinners or clean the house though........
2006-11-29 06:11:25 · answer #5 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This could be him satisfying his thirst for sex through window shopping. Better he does this than stray.
Don't get angry with him, talk to him, ask him what he's looking at and look with him, question what he likes about it and see if you like it too.
If it still upsets you ask him not to do it, or only do it when your not around.
Hope I've helped.
2006-11-29 06:05:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
after asking the same question and getting answers,I decided to talk with my husband about it and he has given it up completely,it has been 5 days and counting, he told me our marriage was worth more than the porn and had he known earlier it bothered me so much he would have stopped sooner,so my advice is to talk with him about it
2006-11-29 06:04:24 · answer #7 · answered by icequeen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think I'd be shopping for another partner if it bothered me.
2006-11-29 06:15:37 · answer #8 · answered by Tippy's Mom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is fine, leave him alone or join him...
Most men like porn..
Most women do not.
Join him in watching some porn over a few drinks...
2006-11-29 05:59:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
It's ok it doesn't mean he loves you any less,I've got a screen saver of Robbie Williams knob,lovely it is too !
2006-11-29 06:01:20 · answer #10 · answered by MANC & PROUD 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋