It seems that I've met this guy who says he's totally interested in me, but it seems like I'm the only one that makes the phone calls. If I dont call he wont call me, but then I told him that I wasn't gonna call anymore, and he was like "oh dont do that, I really want you to call me, I've just been too busy to call you". Hmmmm....... I'm confused.
2006-11-29 05:53:34 · 20 answers · asked by Peggy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He has a girlfriend and your his backup.
2006-11-29 05:55:16 · answer #1 · answered by FF Geek 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-07 23:18:39 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just stop calling him and see what happens, if he is really interested in you he will be bound to call you, if not, then he obviously has something else going on, if he can't even take some time out to give you a phone call.
2006-11-29 05:56:16 · answer #3 · answered by I answer ur questions 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's not interested. If he was, he'd call. Move on. Take advice from Sex and the City "He's just not that into you." You can do better than a guy who won't call :)
2006-11-29 05:56:19 · answer #4 · answered by danielleb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he was THAT interested, he'd call..I mean, apparently he has time to take your calls, so why couldn't he have been the one do to the dialing?
I'd let him go...if he really wants to keep in touch, he'll put forth effort at least equal to yours, to do so...if he doesn't, then he wasn't all that in to you anyway...
Perhaps he likes being "chased"...but games like that are for kiddies...not adults...
2006-11-29 05:57:54 · answer #5 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is taking advantage. Don't call him if he really wants to talk to you he will call you. And if he calls and wants to make a date at the last minute tell him no you will have to check your schedule. Men don't want to be chased they want to do the chasing.
2006-11-29 05:56:46 · answer #6 · answered by Venus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they lie. They just want to make out with you or have sex with you. And if they are really interested in you they will constantly calling you till you say ''wow'' he really like me then.
2006-11-29 06:00:29 · answer #7 · answered by XI 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's just busy and male and confident that you're gonna do the calling. I would stop calling him immediately.
2006-11-29 06:04:40 · answer #8 · answered by Warm Breeze 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are chasing an immature person. If he was a real gentleman, he would be honest and upfront. If he was truly interested in you he would pursue you. Dump him and find someone more mature that will be courteous to you.
2006-11-29 05:55:54 · answer #9 · answered by hank 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't call him. If you are worth anything to him, he'll call you. If not, you can't still want to be with him if you are worth anything to yourself. He just wants to make as little effort as possible with respect to his relationship with you. I bet he is making effort with respect to other things. Do you honestly want to pursue it? Let him make some of the effort before you continue.
2006-11-29 05:57:00 · answer #10 · answered by Tara P 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants you to do all the calling my dear.The thing is to make him want to call you. You have to give him a reason to want to call you.
2006-11-29 05:56:08 · answer #11 · answered by Osunwole Adeoyin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋