are these ages to young to get married. i have been with her for two years and we both agree we want to be together fovever
2006-11-29 05:47:45 · 28 answers · asked by mrbubblessk8 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dont get married .... unless your a positive you are both perfect for each other at least wait till your 20 you change over time and just because you are good toether now doesn mean you'll be good together later (forever is what marriage means)you'll both change over time and not nessecarily in the same way
2006-11-29 05:52:33 · answer #1 · answered by arei 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Might be a little too young to marry. My first marriage I was 18 and she 17 and it only lasted for 2 years. Luckily we are now very close friends and realize that we were too young at that time, although nobody could tell us that and when they did we did not listen, and so things just didn't work as we were not mature enough. Who knows you two may be together forever but get a little more life experience under your belt, get your education and get settled into a career before you walk down the aisle. Don't mean to sound too much like a parent or an old geezer but this is just the reality of the situation. Best of luck and continue to support each other and love each other unconditionally so you can grow as a team and know each other thoroughly before you marry.
2006-11-29 13:54:00 · answer #2 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forever is a very long time. And if you hold true to that, what does it really matter if you wait a few more years to be "legal"? PLEASE don't make the same mistake I did...get your careers off the ground (NOT just a JOB) and your finances in order. I got married at 20 but only had a "good job" and not a career. Now my marriage and my two children are suffering for lack of money. Jobs come and go...if you're trained in a specific career, you can go from one employer to another without starting completely over every time. I'm thirty-something and I'm considered "an unskilled worker reentering the labor market" because I took 3 years off due to medical reasons. Get your finances in order to have a stable foundation for your family. It makes the problems that come around easier to deal with.
Good Luck and Blessings!!!
2006-11-29 14:34:54 · answer #3 · answered by Silverwolf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest... YES! At those ages you may think you know what you are feeling but most of the time it's not actually right. If you feel so strongly toward each other then it is capable to wait until you have figured out your life as an adult. Such as college, careers, housing. How are you going to provide for each other, have you decided if she will work or stay home with the kids? How are you going to be able to support her and the children? Too many young adults rush into things and regret it later. I hope you don't become one of those statistics. You will both grow as you mature and hopefully you both are able to grow together and not leave one of you behind. Live, see the world, explore life together but wait until your more mature to handle the consequences (good or bad).
2006-11-29 13:57:15 · answer #4 · answered by Karen A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I would say it is very young- you're both still coming into your own as people. Neither of you are legally adults yet either.
If you are planning on being together forever, what's the rush? Why not wait for a few years? By that point, you'll know each other that much better, and be more secure both in yourselves and financially.
2006-11-29 14:24:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES!!! Do not get married!! Wait until you are both 22-23 and see if you are still in love or haven't decided to expand your horizons. If you truly love eachother, there is no harm done by waiting. Most people that get married that young wind up divorced before they're 30.
2006-11-29 13:50:28 · answer #6 · answered by GirlUdontKnow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know you two people so i dont know how mature you are. but i will answer you as if you were my son. ( my son is now 28 yrs.) he lived through me so i guess i cant harm you. i would suggest that you wait until you have both finished school and have saved some money up. you can still see each other as often as you like, but there are things that need to be done before you decide on a life changing step like marraige. although my sister got married when she was 16 and her boyfriend was 15. they are still together over fourty years later and happy as all get out! they now have three grown children and some grand kids and they have built several homes . they now live in one they built on a lake and enjoy life to the fullest. they are still very much in love. so see, it is very hard for anyone to answer this when we really dont know you. i hope you come to a good decision for yourselves. and good luck to both of you. my best wishes go out to you both. merry christmas.
2006-11-29 13:59:41 · answer #7 · answered by chrystal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should wait till your older....i have been with my boyfriend for 4 years since i was 15 and im 19 now.....we live together and we really got to see another side to each other that we both never saw when we both lives at your own homes.....you should wait....whats the rush you can both no that you want to get married and it can happene but wait untill your atleast 18.....try to live together when you turn 18 and see how it gose.....
2006-11-29 13:52:12 · answer #8 · answered by greyc143 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now you have to really think about marriage, but my grandparent both got married at 17 and are still together, so if you like this person alot then I am all for you but marriage is a big step
2006-11-29 13:50:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes that is too young to get married. both of you have ya'll whole life a head. so don't rush in too marriage right now, because i know several people who got married that young but not married now. I'm not saying don't get married i'm just saying WAIT
2006-11-29 13:50:50 · answer #10 · answered by KEE 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋