What kind of person finds an excuse to argue with someone, or set up an excuse. A person who brings up the past and puts the blame on a spouse. This person will not speak to his spouse for 2-3 months. He will decide to talk when he feels. He humiliates her when friends are over, or call her filthy names in front of his friends. This person will attempt to make decisions for someone else without asking them first. If you have a place to be at a certain time, this person will try to get you to help him because he knows your going somewhere and have to be there. If you say you have to be somewhere and you can't help, he starts an argument and wont talk to you for another 3 months. This person doesn't speak to his son or wife when he's angry and won't say what's on his mind if you ask him, he just ignores you. If you say hi to him he ignores you. What is wrong with this person?, Why does someone put such emotional problems to others?
2006-11-29 05:43:33 · 4 answers · asked by luvs6strings 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Some people, in spite of their good qualities, have character flaws that make them 'control' freaks say...When he is not in control, he 'punishes' his wife...his own ego is so small, that he has to put her down,...for fear that she will get some attention, and that he will lose control of her...He must have some good qualities,..that are admirable...but many people are just plain spoiled rotten and when they don't get their way, they act like this....it is sickening...and I would ignore his actions if at all possible...like a spoiled rotten brat...don't let him think he has got to you...but the name calling...he makes an *** out of himself anyway...no need to say anything
2006-11-29 06:02:59 · answer #1 · answered by MotherKittyKat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um can you say a "CONTROL FREAK?" Not to mention an *** hole. I know some men like that, they're not worth the time, effort or heartache to be with. Leave the jerk and find someone who's better. If you're feeling blue and you have a kid, making things worse if you stick with the jerk b/c of the kid. Then they thnk its 'normal' to do that ****! I doubt thats what you want to do. Leave him ASAP. And talk to a shrink or someone, they gotta be able to help you out. Good luck and God bless.
Allie
2006-11-29 05:48:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This person needs help. Ive studied psychology. There must be something in his life thats bothering/upsetting/causing difficulty for him. Was he always like this? when did it start? Try to think abolut this. Its a common trait (unfortunately) that those who are bothered by something take it out on those nearest to them... In a odd way its their way of saying something is up ... without saying anything... It is clear he wants you to know something is up... as you say he wont speak about it ... is there somebody he is close to other than you ? a best mate? a brother? men speak better to men - Since he is humiliating you - it could be that he feels humiliated in whathever is bothering him - a way of letting you know is by doing exactly what he is suffering onto you - sick I know. I hope this is of help - try speaking to his brother/father/best mate - men speak better to men
2006-11-29 05:53:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The REAL question is.....who in the hell would put up with that kind of behavior? You must like being abused.
Dump the loser.
2006-11-29 05:46:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋