My boyfriend & I had an agrument last night.
First we had sex and he came quick bcuz he can't handle me 2 long when im on top, but i do it anyways just 2 please him although i dont get much out of it. I knew that he couldn't stay long. He just sat there for about 30 mins.Then, he performs oral on me.When it was time 4 the last round (doggy style-my fav), we had to stop suddenly (don't ask why,be it was urgent)
I was really upset bcuz i really didnt enjoy myself and said that this was a waste of time. He was upset because I was upset and said he wasn't coming over again. I asked why and he just ignored me. My feelings were hurt so bad. We broke up last night.
I was wrong for getting upset. I admitt it was selfish. BUT he is wrong for his short temper that he needs to work on and his also doesn't have patience. I love him so much and now I'm trying to get him 2 C that we can change together. I AM SO WILLING 2 CHANGE
He isnt bad n bed,it was just last night.
2006-11-29 05:01:28 · 14 answers · asked by stress77mulah 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I said I was sorry. I told him that i would change. But he is not going 4 that bcuz we always have small argument. I offered 2 give him space for a couple of days to cool down and let the situation die down... I DON'T KNOW WHAT 2 DO. He has been my world since my mother died about 2 months ago.... i can't lose him over something like THIS!!!!!!
2006-11-29 05:03:56 · update #1
Could you not have started your question just by saying you broke up with your boyfriend because you said something that you thought hurt his feelings? I just don't get why you felt that you had to go into great detail about your sex life.
2006-11-29 05:04:00 · answer #1 · answered by spelling nazi 5 · 0⤊ 3⤋
I can't believe you got that upset over bad sex!!! I know you said you were sorry but come on...!... It will be really hard for you to rectify this situation because sex is not something to fight over. Everyone has their good nights and their bad. At least he tried by giving you oral. And besides if you needed to get off that badly couldn't you have done the job yourself? I know it isn't the same but it does the trick and there is always tomorrow night.
But maybe not for you anymore.
Good luck.
2006-11-29 13:10:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love him you will keep ;your mouth shut when his proformance is not up to par. Men have sensitive egos. If you love him you will love him for all his shortcomings and try to look past them. Yes I think you were selfish, but im sure you didnt meant to. Tell him you love him and you were wrong. You hurt his ego that is hard to get over.
2006-11-29 13:06:29 · answer #3 · answered by janine b 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ouch,actually from my experience it seems like men have eggshell fragile egos when it comes to those matters so you should REALLY appologize,but he should as well for having a short temper,hope that helped!
2006-11-29 13:07:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me that sex is to big of an issue for you two.......Maybe you should try to focus on some other things in your relationship first and then get back into the whole sex thing.....
2006-11-29 13:05:02 · answer #5 · answered by Steven A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what to do? Life has to go on with him or without him. Dont let this get you do, Its better you know now if he is a azzhole...or not. If he comes back you know he loves you, if not his lost and thats the only way you can look at it.
2006-11-29 13:24:27 · answer #6 · answered by Quinton S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you considered a career in televsion? Specially reality TV?
Or editor for Penthouse letters perhaps?
2006-11-29 13:18:43 · answer #7 · answered by Existentialist_Guru 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow. just give him some times. apologize and have another make up sex.
2006-11-29 13:05:34 · answer #8 · answered by ivelisse 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you sound like you need to apologize if you want him back, and don't be selfish in bed.
2006-11-29 13:04:53 · answer #9 · answered by ndngrlz 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
BE PATIENT N MAYBE HE WILL RELIZE THAT HE WAZ WRONG 2 FOR GETTIN MAD OVER SOMETHING STUPID...N DONT BE SO SELFISH..
2006-11-29 13:07:24 · answer #10 · answered by babyboi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋