I really like this guy, and I know he likes me, but he's considerably older than me, and there's no way you'd think this of me, but I've never even kissed someone. Should I tell him before hand?
2006-11-29 04:59:10 · 9 answers · asked by Julie 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am 38 and I have had an experience meeting a woman that was a virgin still at 24. She was apologetic and very shy. I don't think you should feel bad for being a virgin. Everyone has a first time - some sooner some later.
At least being older he would hopefully find your honesty appreciative. Tell him as a matter-of-fact when an intimate conversation comes up. Don't sound as though you are making a big deal of it.
And if he is hesitant or steps back, just respect it and move on. There's absolutely nothing to be ashamed about who you are darling :-) Good luck.
2006-11-29 05:07:03 · answer #1 · answered by houstonian352000 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you want to I would but there is nothing wrong with what you are working with he will show you I know you must be kinda nervous but just go along for the ride tell him you never really even kissed before and i bet he will show you .. Don't worry about relax and have fun ... Good Luck !
2006-11-29 13:04:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on what you plan to do with him Little Sister. If it just kissing them tell him...maybe you can show me a thing or too because I am purrfecting my kiss.
If, you are talking sex....a) be sure he is worthy (i.e.: wait 6 months to 1 year) b) tell him you are pure so he can be extra gentle....
I will tell you this, I just couldn't wait to be sexually active and think back on it I could have waited for someone special and I could have learned about pleasure on my own.
2006-11-29 13:07:56 · answer #3 · answered by Lovely B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Telling him wont hurt anything and if he cares about you he will take the time to relax with you and not push things. Good luck to ya!!
2006-11-29 13:05:21 · answer #4 · answered by gary t 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should. people dont like to be lied to. it might just help out the relationship! I would.
2006-11-29 13:07:20 · answer #5 · answered by Michael T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in the same boat as you. and it's frickin' scary! I mean... you know what I mean... good luck! to us both :P
2006-11-29 13:08:23 · answer #6 · answered by sea_star 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not necessarily, if u want to go ahead and tell him but i don't the need.
2006-11-29 13:03:09 · answer #7 · answered by ivelisse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is important to you than yes.........But let him know how you feel about it....
2006-11-29 13:01:47 · answer #8 · answered by Steven A 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no.
just go with the flow, and do your best
2006-11-29 13:02:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋