if you have a friend who you like but it seems as if her life is going into turmoil, would you still hit on her or let her stress pass and forget the feelings you have for her? I like her so much but i dont want to just think about myself because that is wrong....i dont know what to do....what would you do if the person you liked was raped....got a STD....and she might be pregnant? how would you feel??? What should i do? how can i comfort her without being mad at the person who did this to her OMG im really freaking out...
2006-11-29 04:58:52 · 7 answers · asked by Leany 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow. Sounds like you have a heck of a deal on your hands. I think the first action you should take is let her know that you like her, by showing her that you care about her, through what has happened to her. (IF you really know to be true that you like her THAT much, if you dont think you could handle whats going on her life, dont try to step in) Let her know that your willing to be by her side and help her through 100%. If you honestly like her so much that you feel you could love her, then it shouldnt matter that she might be pregnant and have an STD, If you love someone you will be there for that person no matter what problem arises. You could help her get treatment for the STD, and if she is pregnant, you could step in as a father figure and show her how much you really care for her life. Dont back away from your feelings because she was abused. This is the time when she needs someone to be there the most! After you stand by her side and she knows you care, she will then maybe understand without you telling her that you like her, and she will be more interested in you because you cared so much to help.
2006-11-29 05:14:40 · answer #1 · answered by D.E.P. & B.N.W. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just comfort her ... she really doesn't need anybody "hitting" on her if she's going through all that ... she just needs a friend somebody that will show her love & compassion ... take her out for lunch or the movies ... try to keep her mind busy & be sure to do whatever it is you can do to help her through this ... call family members .. get involved with the investigation ... take her to doctor appointments ... etc ... pretty much just take care of her until she feels a little better ... hope everything works out ... !
2006-11-29 05:04:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be her friend stay close while the storm dies and help her pass by this incident your relationship will get stronger and then you really be more clear about what you 2 feel for each other
2006-11-29 05:02:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think the best thing u can do is be there for her and just care for her and later on tell her how u feel about her
2006-11-29 05:03:27 · answer #4 · answered by cristal D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she got her own problem don't confuse her with your needs.
she need a friend then a lover any way right now.
2006-11-29 05:01:22 · answer #5 · answered by Silly Jaro 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
help her in time of need how would u feel if that was u kill the bastered that did it to her
2006-11-29 05:02:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
comfort her cause she needs now
2006-11-29 05:06:52 · answer #7 · answered by Rocklander 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋