until after he already got back with you. then you tried to figure out what's goin on when he doesnt come around for a few days due to him goin to court fighting for a divorce. what would you do when you found out he was even married and didnt say anything from the get go.
2006-11-29 04:57:47 · 11 answers · asked by LiL MaMa 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A leopard doesn't change it's spots. He is what he is a liar, even by omission, he still remains a liar.. Is this what you want for yourself in life? Someone whose word you can't trust.
I think old bfs from the past should be left well enough alone. He is a ex for a reason..... You have moved on and probably grown up alot... don't take a step back in time... This is not healthy and you are not doing yourself any favours....
2006-11-29 05:02:19 · answer #1 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly....I'd make his life a living nightmare so he'd never make the mistake of involving me in his life ever again. I'm sorry you had this experience. Don't pity the guy, don't listen to the stories about how the breakup of the marriage was all her fault, and get the heck away from him as quick as you can. He has put you at risk of being named as a witness in his little drama (i.e. divorce proceeding) and that would be unforgiveable to me. Hey--you asked!
2006-11-29 13:01:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him now and never take another phone call from him. He is only after 1 thing and you know what that is. Find someone with morals and character that is worth you.
2006-11-29 13:07:11 · answer #3 · answered by gary t 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He can't be trusted. Hiding the truth is the same thing as lying.
Can you have a relationship without trust. If he hid that from you who knows what else he is hiding
2006-11-29 13:02:51 · answer #4 · answered by freida1973 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, you cant base a relationship on a lie. He should have told you abt his marital status..... this makes me think that he was using you for a rebound relationship. Dump him and move on!
2006-11-29 13:02:37 · answer #5 · answered by freshlimesoda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is an EX for a reason.... if you had moved on with your life, why even bother going back?? Forget him once and for all.
2006-11-29 13:01:40 · answer #6 · answered by marisanj 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of him immediately...if he was not honest about this, what else is lurking in the shadows? You do not need this type of person under any circumstances.
2006-11-29 13:01:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
the word sandwich comes to mind, you are in the middle of a mess, and why didn't you think to ask questions, or did he lie about that too
2006-11-29 13:01:49 · answer #8 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he used you for a booty call when his wife wouldn't give him some...he just said that so you will be ready for HIS needs again he just used you and you should go out and get a real man
2006-11-29 13:00:22 · answer #9 · answered by nas88car300 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no i wouldn't because once a liar will always be a liar. u should send him back to his wife.
2006-11-29 13:00:48 · answer #10 · answered by ivelisse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋