Have you ever met someone who does not have the common curtousy to watch what they say the majority of the time? One who speaks their mind and after hurting someone says they care but could not help it. It is usually after-the-fact they feel guilty about things, but at the time they are doing it, they do not realize it.
This person is usually depressed but when is around people does not show it. She is one not to put on shows, but some would think otherwise. She generally is an open-minded person who tends to be obnoxious with what she does and says.
I would say she is hyper 70% of the time and cranky 30%. Now this is not saying those are her only two characteristics, but ones which stand out the most.
How does one cope with this?
How would you explain this female's actions/issues?
2006-11-29 04:40:51 · 6 answers · asked by no 3 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
This "friend" of mine truly DOES care about her actions...it is just after-the-fact. She is very honest with what she says and I admire her for some of the things she says/does (not the obnoxious things either).
I know she is insecure, but that cannot be the blame for everything.
2006-12-01 05:07:47 · update #1
Complete insecurity or chemical imbalance. And oh my gawd - you just described my soon-to-be sister in law perfectly. The things that come out of her mouth just baffle me and I'm a pretty open-minded, not too sensitive person. She has zero tact. All of the things you said - it's crazy...almost as if you know her!
My only take on it with her is insecurity. She feels the need to be the center of attention or truly is lacking the self control it takes to keep one's mouth shut. I think she just talks all the time because she can't stand to be alone in her own head. I don't know, but your question in some bizarre way could have come from me so I had to answer.
Happy Holidays!
2006-11-29 04:46:17 · answer #1 · answered by Grá 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
simply put, she is not a very happy or content person if she just plainly doesn't care about the reactions of those she has hurt.
You cope with this by avoiding this person. Who would want to be around someone who is so iffy one minute, and has highs and lows whenever. Its very draining on everyone to have a friend like this.
2006-11-29 12:44:27 · answer #2 · answered by ~brigit~ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
part one : Grab a car antenna, turn her over yer knee, pants her, and REALLY give her something to be cranky about!
part two: OH, gotta be chemical imbalances in the brain. Or neuroflabboohfukya or one of them other designer diseases.
haork. Hope that cheesed somebody off.
Caught me on the wrong 30%.
honk. C'mon. GIMME FIVE on the DOWNSIDE.
2006-11-29 13:57:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
She's under 30 and hasn't made it to the point in her life where her brain takes over and her emotions trail off, somewhat. It's called lack of maturity. Turn and walk away...why be bothered for no good reason?
2006-11-29 14:54:13 · answer #4 · answered by fishman 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes I tend to have my days also. The problem starts within you ,start inside in work your way out. But I think that it's good to be out spoken.
2006-11-29 12:54:10 · answer #5 · answered by keshh23 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The word you are looking for that applies here is BEYOTCH.
2006-11-29 14:07:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋