I've been married for a year and a half now and my husband has been pressuring me to get pregnant for over a year. I told him to stop, but he wont listen.
I missed carried once about a month ago. Going to the doctor, he discovered i have an ovarian cyst and that i would have to take birth control pills for it to, hopefully, go away.
This has caused me so much stress. I want to forget, but i can't. How can i deal with the stress?
Any advice is welcome.
2006-11-29 04:00:18 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
Well let's hope he isn't pressuring you just for the sake of applying pressure. You did not say your ages nor did you indicate whether you your self wanted a baby, nor did you say if you have other children, but I'm thinking hubby just wants to be a father. Right?
You want to take him with you to the doctor next time. Have the doctor explain what's going on with you and the cyst so that he gets a clear picture. Be sure (if that's the case) that you assure him that you are just as anxious to be a mom. Talk it out, don't argue.
Also let him know you're stressed out as well. If he's a cool dude, he'll back off and take you away on a stress-relieving trip or something.
Good luck and turn that frown upside down!!
2006-11-29 04:14:59 · answer #1 · answered by Wil T 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2006-12-01 18:04:36 · answer #2 · answered by marketingexpert 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kids are a handful, if your husband does'nt support your now, he won't later.
2006-11-29 12:13:56 · answer #3 · answered by Robin S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then get pregnant and shut up about it already.
2006-11-29 12:08:00 · answer #4 · answered by The Capital City Goofball 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋