We dated for 1.5 years, I was stretched thin in a stressful but excellent job, helping a handicaped parent, and commuting between two cities. She said I can't commit and that she "gave myself to you" but I did not respond to her liking. It had nothing to do with other women...I do not have an interest in others. I was just going a mile a minute not knowing how to please everyone and she wanted marriage and a child NOW! I needed more time to be sure is all. She is from a wealthy family and just wants kids badly. Does the frozen eggs thing mean she can now just do whatever with no time pressures....and hence cast me aside? Recently I moved closer, lost 40lbs, and got a new job. she won't even comment on my weight loss when everyone else does...and I am so happy about it. now that I am closer, she keeps bringing up things that were a result of me being at a distance the last couple of years. I try to look forward not backward. lots of stuff..advice? should I go silent a month?
2006-11-29 03:58:05 · 2 answers · asked by keepingitgoing 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like she is the one who couldn't commit to you, if she couldn't wait out your situation. It's always easier to blame our own fear of commitment on the other person.
I think you should let her go, and I'll tell you why... out of your whole description you're talking about the situation but nothing about love. Without love there is nothing.
2006-11-29 04:03:45 · answer #1 · answered by zmj 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah sounds like she has issues arising from your relationship,she needs to deal with.
Give her some time and do not pressure her anymore.
As for the frozen eggs,I never heard that one before,.You mean she can not have kids?
I`m not sure about that.
Take care
2006-11-29 12:05:19 · answer #2 · answered by sunflower2052002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋