Been dating a guy now for two months! Do not hang out with him all the time, but maybe once a week. He is the one who wantede this and tracked me down this as I never really wanted it. Now I am beginning to have feelings when do I tell him? Is it wrong for a girl to be up front and honest about there feelings this soon?
2006-11-29 03:47:25 · 7 answers · asked by WHY!!! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hmmm.... Tough one, I have no answer good luck.()
2006-11-29 03:49:55 · answer #1 · answered by Saint 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I may be "old school" in this but I am also right. Do not pursue him, let him pursue you. It sounds like you already did this so don't screw it up now OK? A person's actions speak much louder than words, so show him you care, but don't overdo it and don't say anything before he does. A lot of people these days seem to think that you need to be joined at the hip if you are "in love" or truly care about each other but that is not true. Is he seeing other girls? If so end it now-if he wants just you he will make it clear when or soon after you say goodbye. But don't just say good-bye to test him or play games, be willing to see it through. Good luck sweetie.
2006-11-29 11:56:52 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd simply bring up that you want to see him more often. See what he says to that. Don't tell him you're falling in love with him, unless he's the emotional type that will accept that (he doesn't sound like he's that type though). If he says he's not interested in seeing you more often, then you're just a date to him..and he's probably not looking to get serious with you...much less anyone else.
2006-11-29 11:55:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, i dont think its wrong. i like it when a girl is up front and honest about there feelings soon.
2006-11-29 11:50:58 · answer #4 · answered by FREDDIE BOY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not a bad thing to be honest with ur feelings its better to be honest then dishonest with him
2006-11-29 11:53:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its wrong not tell him what you feel be honest and hill come to you
2006-11-29 11:50:47 · answer #6 · answered by lost_in_love_still 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just SHOW him... words never really do it justice anyway
2006-11-29 11:50:35 · answer #7 · answered by zmj 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋