I have recently left a job where I was having a sexual relationship with a woman 11 years older than me. Since I have started my new job I have lost contact with her and the new job seems so boring and dull due to no-one to play with.
So my question is is sex in the workplace common and is it a good idea?
2006-11-29 03:46:38 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its very common, but not a good idea!
2006-11-29 03:48:06 · answer #1 · answered by wantstoknow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex in the workplace is probably more common than one thinks but; what a bad idea. If something goes wrong there will be tension at work and one of them will have to leave. Why not just keep the workplace off limits, unless you like changing jobs a lot.
2006-11-29 03:49:47 · answer #2 · answered by bellbottombleus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
common, yes I would say so. You tend to spend more time at work around people than you actually do outside of work so it's not uncommon for a relationship to develop. Affairs tend to happen a lot with someone in the workplace too for the same reason
2006-11-29 03:48:42 · answer #3 · answered by kloquewerk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
COMMON??? well it happens thats for sure (as u already know lol), a good idea??well thats a matter of opinion, if thats what floats your boat, then go to sea(lol).I guess it is quite a change, from sex in the work place to work in the work place.. Of course its boring now b/c you are actually getting paid to work~ all work & no sex makes the day go by slow huh?? Wow i bet you are missing that job huh? well you should now find something interesting in that new job of yours, something to keep your mind off of "SEX", make plans to get some good loving when you get off "every evening"...........
2006-11-29 03:54:42 · answer #4 · answered by kimmiegaddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Baaaaaad idea, bud. Trust me from experience. With the sensitive workplace culture we are living with, even silly comments can be misconstrued. You don't want to come back from lunch with a sexual harassment grievance on your desk. If you don't care about your job, go for it. If you do care, find your action elsewhere. Aside from the sexual harassment nonsense, imagine having to deal with her professionally after you break up. No fun!
2006-11-29 03:53:25 · answer #5 · answered by David M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The previous few jobs i've got had i've got worked as a rule with women folk in commited relationships, so there became no longer something. Even outdoors the situation of work they have been cheating on their boyfriends or husbands. everybody became enormously everyday. even nevertheless, my first job became at Wal-Mart and after 10 years, a million married supervisor banged the jewelry lady in his place of work, yet another one cheated with yet another worker and ended up being asked to go away, yet another one divorced his spouse unexpectedly (uncertain if cheating had to do with it even nevertheless it became very unexpected). The married loss prevention officer felt up whoever might permit him and slept with a minimum of one lady for particular (there had to be many extra). An assistant supervisor left his spouse for yet another lady, yet another one divorced her husband and ended up with yet another assistant supervisor... and that's basically the administration - it does not even incorporate each and all the staff. there have been a good number of divorces there interior the previous years. There are a good number of rumors, yet there are additionally a good number of chop up ups, too, so according to threat there is a few certainty there.
2016-12-14 08:57:56 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is sad but true. Its very common in the workplace. I don;t think it is right because your there to work. If there is someone that you like then if something is to happen it should be done outside of the work place.
2006-11-29 03:50:36 · answer #7 · answered by laydenirvine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex in the workplace is quite common, some like it and some use it to gain higher wages.
2006-11-29 03:49:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A study came out recently that ascertained that married people get involved more often in office romance/sexual affairs than do single people. The result speaks to the fact that married people are only interested in sex and not in leaving their spouse.
2006-11-29 03:49:42 · answer #9 · answered by maggiepirsq 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very common.
Whether or not it is a good idea is up to the people who are having the relations.
If you can both be mature, consenting adults and agree not to make things WEIRD before or after the play is over, then why can't it be a good idea?!?
2006-11-29 04:06:24 · answer #10 · answered by Miz D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you going to do pick a victim just to have someone to play with at work? You need to find a job that is so fullfilling you don't have thoughts like that. To answer your question, every place I have worked at has people that carry on sexually.
2006-11-29 03:55:37 · answer #11 · answered by righteousrose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋