At college i meet him everyday i see him where ever i go actually i can understand that he has a crush on me.he is a cute one,already i hav a BF& I love him so much idont want any one 2come 2my life.but this 14yrs guy is trying his best to take my attention & cz hes so cute sometimes my attention goes to him iknow iam wrong at that time even he is a small one bt what should i do,stilll i didnt say this to my friends& my bf.
2006-11-29 03:46:36 · 30 answers · asked by crystal 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
think, "if I touch that I will go to jail" your 19 and he is 14 doesn't matter how cute he is cause you can still go to jail as a pedophile even though you are not one
2006-11-29 03:50:31 · answer #1 · answered by kat 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Aww, bless his heart. I would be flattered. I would just be nice to him and if one day he takes it too far and say ask you out on a date, I would have to sit him down and explain that although he is a very charming nice young man, there is no way you could possibly date him because he is way too young for you and you could get into trouble with the law if you dated a young man like himself. This might not stop him from having a crush on you, but at least he will have a clear understanding as to why you could never be with him. The sooner he understands this, the sooner he would be more likely to find someone his age that he can date.
2006-11-29 03:54:20 · answer #2 · answered by melcar12345 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At best, you're foresaking a boyfriend you already have. At worst, you're risking breaking the law due to the 14 y.o.'s age.
But on the other hand you're only 19. You will have MANY MANY MANY more opportunities for disappointment and failure, so you may as well take this chance.
You may find that dating a child is without certain maturity interests.
2006-11-29 03:57:02 · answer #3 · answered by Howler24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not unusual for a 14 year old to have a crush on an older teenager, at that age hormones are sprinting through your body. If you really like him go over to him and speak. See how he feels about you. Tell him you have a boyfriend. He may back off a little.
Good Luck, Peace out, George.xx
2006-11-29 03:51:00 · answer #4 · answered by George M 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hmm, exciting situation, listed the following are a number of my ideas: i imagine you ought to confirm in case you may move the coach venue to a impartial region: ie a library?, college cafeteria? are in simple terms some innovations drop 'tricks' that you're taken and hence arent 'rejecting ' him because he's not your form yet rather you dont favor to 'cheat'. talk about your very last date, how tremendous the dude became, what issues your bf bought for you dont provide him ANY encouragement; dont settle for any extra presents(not even the straightforward ones like sweet/chocolate), no extra hugs/touching of any kind, attempt now to not hunt suggestion from a lot about stuff besides tutoring and your 'boyfriend'
2016-11-27 21:14:25 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should get a life....you are weird. why would that even make you wonder about what to do?-hes 14. a little boy. It might be cute or funny but not serious. Grow up and what would a 14 year old be doing at college?
2006-11-29 03:51:58 · answer #6 · answered by Yellowtulips 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should go to school and learn how to spell and write. You are, obviously, wasting too much time on boys. I cannot believe you are in college. You write like a kid in second grade.
You cannot be too involved with the boyfriend if you are attracted to a fourteen year old child. Believe me, if you act on your feelings you will regret it. It is not worth the trouble you will find yourself in if you pursue this boy.
2006-11-29 03:53:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait 3 or 4 years. He'll be 17 or 18 you'll be 22 or 23. Then look him up and **** his brains out!!
2006-11-29 04:31:45 · answer #8 · answered by Barry DaLive 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all, you need to put yourself in check; this boy is jail bait! Second, you need to let the boy know that he's far too young for you and that you're involved with someone else. It's up to you to draw the line, and you need to do it now!
2006-11-29 03:49:22 · answer #9 · answered by grandm 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if you have a boyfriend then why are you even thinking about it. he is like 5 years younger then you. that should be an automatic no just because of the age. but you should talk to the 14 year old and tell him hes too young and explain it to him. tell him about your boyfriend.
2006-11-29 03:50:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋